tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post2941970427992521941..comments2024-01-21T09:23:22.984-08:00Comments on The Girlfriend Fastlane Blog - Jake Payton: We're LesbiansJake P.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-34532914121088341122012-08-22T10:41:01.466-07:002012-08-22T10:41:01.466-07:00Time to experiment with all of this and find out f...Time to experiment with all of this and find out for yourself what happens!<br />Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-5488119139712553692012-08-16T01:46:23.880-07:002012-08-16T01:46:23.880-07:00Your responses made me laugh. Great stuff.
Just w...Your responses made me laugh. Great stuff. <br />Just wondering if that would have worked with my low perceived value at the time. I guess that response of rapport breaking would ether get me blown out or have super high attraction. <br />What I did seemed to slowly bring up my value and the attraction levels over a minute or two. Using compliance tests and lighter version of calling them out on their BS.<br /><br />Would tend to do that in later sets once I had a few sets under my belt for the night. This was just a warm up set that went somewhere.<br />I wonder if the fact that I instigated them touching and then telling them to kiss and then kiss with tongues etc built up the sexual energy followed by me calling them out built to a solid close, that lead to a lay about an hour later. <br />I wonder if breaking rapport would have done the same thing or led to a more drawn out pick up? Guess we will never know for sure. But just one of the things that cross my mind. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-15183424062473904562012-08-15T13:57:40.930-07:002012-08-15T13:57:40.930-07:00To break rapport in this situation I would use wor...To break rapport in this situation I would use words and energy harsh enough to break the stream of positivity that's been going on in the interaction up until that point. At that point the girls will feel me disconnecting myself from her and taking away my positivity. She'll lose favor with me. That's the rapport-break part. <br /><br />Immediately after that I usually like to tease her for thinking I would believe that shit and make fun of her for being a retard. When done correctly, the girl should seek rapport immediately after this has been done or be left laughing and feeling teased. She'll also often kino my arm between shoulder and elbow. <br /><br />For example, let's say she tells me "we're lesbians." I might be like:<br /><br />"Oh that's cute, you think I like you... Get over yourself. What are you, retarded?" <br /><br />OR <br /><br />"What the fuck ever! Gimme a break with that bullshit. What's that, like your go-to response? You're a retard." <br /><br />And then I might make a retard face, noise, and hand motion all together while saying something like (assuming her name is sarah for example) "My names Sarah. i'm a lesbian. I work at McDonalds. You want fries with... that?" <br /><br />This process of rapport-breaking paired with thoroughly break her frame by denying its truth and then making fun of her for thinking I would believe it is usually iron-clad for me in getting attraction and making sure this type of thing doesn't happen again.Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-72675023758340140702012-08-15T06:56:26.410-07:002012-08-15T06:56:26.410-07:00Like I said this was my first and only set of the ...Like I said this was my first and only set of the night in a pretty empty bar at around 8pm. so I was not even in a talkative social state at that time. hence why my opener sucked. I just needed to jup over the edge and start my approaches for the night. Trouble was they were both fairly hot so that didn’t help with a smooth entry with my lame ass opener. <br /><br />Could you elaborate on what you mean by breaking rapport in this situation in more detail. I thaught saying that “you guys love playing games” would be breaking rapport or by calling them out on their actions as being false. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-46925253842531368382012-06-26T17:21:34.988-07:002012-06-26T17:21:34.988-07:00Nice work turning things around through labeling t...Nice work turning things around through labeling their behavior. It's obviously best to try and prevent the behavior from happening at all, but when you can't stop it, it's great when you can still get through the objections. <br /><br />Have you tried breaking the girl's frame through rapport-breaking? You'll see a totally different result than going with her frame and trying to beat her at it as you've done above. Either can work obviously, I just prefer harder game.Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-77415439363244502372012-06-26T00:00:20.124-07:002012-06-26T00:00:20.124-07:00Nice post, had this happen to me and got through i...Nice post, had this happen to me and got through it with a pull. Il say how after, I think this came up because I had a realy lame opener almost AFC, this was my first set of the night and because I was in early in the night not many options for opening a less daunting set, I was on my own waiting for my friends to turn up from a festival. <br /><br />I think I opened with something like “hay, you guys look fun can I join you for a few minuets my friends should be here soon.” <br /><br />The convo progressed averagely from there for about 2-3 minutes. But then came the lesbian objection. <br />Which I battled through this with something like <br />“that’s soo good” and asked a whole bunch of questions. Followed by them jumping through my hoops. <br />Once I know its genraly bull I start cracking out “you guys are so funny you love playing games” <br />I keep repeating this “you guys love playing games” line whilst making them jump through hoops. <br />Make them kiss and then ask have you ever kissed a guy. “noooo” ddo you want to try im an amazing kisser. <br /><br />One leans in and ban make out. Half hour later were back at hers and the rest is history. <br /><br />I think that this along with all other tests and roadblocks girls throw out is only a shit test. seriously I have seen many a natural pull someone who has said “I have a boyfriend” or “I only like girls”. This is why it leads me to believe that they are just testing you and you should push to blow out. At the end of the day if they generally are gay then you have no worries they arnt gona go with you, if however they are bull shitting you then by toying with them and showing you have enough social intuition and experience to tell that they are talking crap then that can build serious attraction. <br />Like I said before there was little or no attraction at first, only after they bought up the objection and I toyed with them. <br />So use this to your advantage. Say “you guys love playing games” in a teasing way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-89702160742266792102012-02-24T15:04:25.929-08:002012-02-24T15:04:25.929-08:00Wow, thanks man! It's great to hear that you&...Wow, thanks man! It's great to hear that you're on the path towards where you wanna be. Seeking approval from women, even people in general, was something that was a big part of my life and it made me feel pretty unimportant at times so I can relate to how you might be feeling. The good news is that when you're past it the world just seems to open up and give you what you wanted in the first place. The trick is how to get from A to B. --- Glad you liked the Shade interview as well! It was a pretty exclusive deal, so even guys in the 30/30 club didn't get to hear it. You're a lucky one :) I'll be here teaching whenever you're ready. Until then feel free to comment or message me whenever.Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-8553648752265523812012-02-24T14:43:32.550-08:002012-02-24T14:43:32.550-08:00Great post dude. Great interview you did with Dav...Great post dude. Great interview you did with David Shade. I'm at the point now where I know I must upgrade my inner game. Or to be fuckin honest, I'm tired of seeking/getting approval. I realize the power of owning my own reality. It came to this point when I lost my job, business was moving slow, and no sex with my live in girl friend for over seventy days...ouch. That's when I knew enough was/is enough. I've come a long way, but I know I need specialized personal coaching. As I circulate the finances, you're THE MAN, I'll be contacting. The most important thing I've discovered is success, prosperity comes from the inside first....very powerful. Thanks Jake.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-80640069268628290622012-02-20T23:40:45.323-08:002012-02-20T23:40:45.323-08:00Right on man. Glad to help.Right on man. Glad to help.Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-16473431854980643042012-02-20T23:33:58.280-08:002012-02-20T23:33:58.280-08:00Wow...thanks Jake...that just shifted my paradigm....Wow...thanks Jake...that just shifted my paradigm...like FOR EVER!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-62888873560438704362012-02-20T23:31:47.670-08:002012-02-20T23:31:47.670-08:00Ha, ha, ha...that's brilliant.
Thanks Jake.Ha, ha, ha...that's brilliant.<br />Thanks Jake.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-51371975752920361462012-02-20T23:22:20.712-08:002012-02-20T23:22:20.712-08:00BTW, I got an email asking about what the smart/ho...BTW, I got an email asking about what the smart/hot/rich routine is. The lead-in is usually something like "Are you a smart girl?" and when she answers you say "Well I like girls who are smart, cause then I don't get bored. I also like girls who are hot... cause i'm hot. And I also like girls who are like really really rich, cause then they can like take me out to dinners and buy me tons of shit.Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-71351793291800717392012-02-20T23:15:40.913-08:002012-02-20T23:15:40.913-08:00The boyfriend objection is very closely related to...The boyfriend objection is very closely related to the lesbian objection. Both are happening for almost the same reason in general. The way you handle them is a bit different though because when you get a boyfriend objection you can actually say a couple things to test the truth of it if you'd like, whereas the truth of the lesbian thing is often a little transparent to guys.<br /><br />When it's clear she's lying about the bf thing, you should take it as a strong sign you're doing poorly so far with the sarge. I'd stop whatever technique or routine you're doing and try another angle or routine instead. Change the vibe and keep testing things out till she responds well to something or just leaves. <br /><br />If you sense she's got a boyfriend but she's into you, then you should communicate your ability to be the guy on the side. I'd say something like "Oh, um... maybe we should be a bit discrete then" and see how she responds. You'll also have to explore the logistics of how to contact her if she's down, because you don't want to be texting her and have your name pop up when they're cooking dinner together. Then a red flag goes up in the guy's mind and you could cause stress in her relationship, an event that would surely fair poorly for your chances. To make sure this doesn't happen, I might ask something like "So when's the best time to text you?" or "So is there a time that's bad to text you, like when do you and your dude normally hang out?" <br /><br />When you do this, you're communicating that you know the gig about being the guy that girls cheat on their boyfriends with and you're not going to fuck up her relationship by calling all the time or doing anything stupid. To a girl who's in a situation where she's got a boyfriend who's not satisfying her in the bedroom, this can be an attractive selling point. And if she didn't have a boyfriend in the first place, you certainly haven't hurt yourself by being this cool. <br /><br />For the third case where it's not clear yet if she's got a boyfriend, I usually like to do some on-the-spot adding up of what's happened so far in the interaction, because usually that'll paint a picture for you as to the validity of what she's saying. In other words, if you get this objection take a second to think through how the set is going so far and see if anything jumps out to you as an obvious mistake or a reason you could've telegraphed interest. If you find that reason then i'd lean towards her having a boyfriend not being the truth.<br /><br />Remember also here to filter this through the reality of the situation you're in with her. Let's say you meet her in a bar and she's with a friend. Seems pretty normal. Well is she dressed up? Does she have some makeup on? Does she look like she's spent some time on herself before going out? Or does she look like she could give a fuck about how she looks that night? Does her friend cockblock or leave you two alone? These types of things are going to be clues to her intentions for the night and whether or not she's open to any male sexual advances that she might incur. Often the fact that she's in a bar for the night and looks done up is compelling evidence that she's on the prowl.Jake P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10072931865569525339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-36296313767629310892012-02-20T16:49:28.154-08:002012-02-20T16:49:28.154-08:00Brilliant!! Would you follow the same strategy fo...Brilliant!! Would you follow the same strategy for "i have a boyfriend" or play it differently? Would you handle any of these cases differently? a) when it's clear she's lying about bf thing b) you sense she does indeed have a boyfriend.. and may or may not be attracted to you - 2 subcases c) it's not yet clear.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515866518091314074.post-63250052769885654992012-02-18T09:11:31.061-08:002012-02-18T09:11:31.061-08:00cheers mate!cheers mate!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com