This weekend I walked up to a seriously hot trendy girl, and within about 15 minutes she went from being extremely apprehensive about me to actually standing by the side of me, lowering her head, and nuzzling into me. We had a nice makeout. We were in our own world. And we're going to meet up this week, obviously. She's completely sold on me. This progression of taking a girl from apprehensive to nuzzling and submissive is one of the most misunderstood things about women. How do you get her attracted? When do you show interest? How much interest do you show and how do you show it? Today I wanna chat about all of this and lay down some rules so things are a bit clearer.
Monday, October 26, 2015
Thursday, September 17, 2015
Identity and Identity Development
I hear the same question all the time from men... "How can I have an attractive identity and how can I use that identity to get women?" Today I wanna give you a simple formula that'll keep women entering your life for years to come...
Monday, September 14, 2015
Breaking Her, and the "Secret" to Lifelong Happiness
A special thanks today to the guys who responded to my last blog post and took me up on the phone coaching! Wow, what a weekend! I had such a crazy weekend I can't even write about parts of it.
After talking with so many guys for so long, i've been able to isolate and combat many of the behavioral patterns I see in women. One thing i've noticed in my years as a dating coach is that women don't know how to make themselves happy. Yep, I said it. Women don't have a clue how to make themselves happy. Are you tuned in? Because today I wanna talk about how to "break" women of their pattern of self-destruction using some dominance techniques. And i'm going to show you the actual breaking process of a woman via text. This is the first time anyone has shown this online (because i'm the one who came up with the theory), and this is probably the single most important lesson a guy can learn, and one that so few do... In other words, today is special fucking treat day for you. Pay attention, class is in session.
After talking with so many guys for so long, i've been able to isolate and combat many of the behavioral patterns I see in women. One thing i've noticed in my years as a dating coach is that women don't know how to make themselves happy. Yep, I said it. Women don't have a clue how to make themselves happy. Are you tuned in? Because today I wanna talk about how to "break" women of their pattern of self-destruction using some dominance techniques. And i'm going to show you the actual breaking process of a woman via text. This is the first time anyone has shown this online (because i'm the one who came up with the theory), and this is probably the single most important lesson a guy can learn, and one that so few do... In other words, today is special fucking treat day for you. Pay attention, class is in session.
Thursday, August 27, 2015
Getting over "The Hump"
Sorry guys, i'm not actually talking about humping a girl in this post. Womp womp. I know how you like your humping stories. Instead, today I wanted to talk a little about how and why many guys fail at many things in their life, including learning dating skills. If you're interested in figuring out what it takes to truly be successful at learning dating skills (and really anything else that's tough to learn), read on...
Tuesday, August 25, 2015
Live With Me - Coaching Review
For the past number of months i've been doing a little experiment designed to see how quickly I can take selected students from "Zero to Hero." I've been curious for a very long time how quickly I can take a student from zero sexual opportunity and a low skill level to having more sex and more sexual opportunity than he ever thought possible.
Does it take a year? 5 years? 5 months? 1 month?
That's what I'm trying to figure out.
Well one of my students has been doing just that. He went from zero women to having a 3 girl rotation in a very short period of time.
BUT HOW?
So, with this in mind, I offered students a chance to come and move into my huge house in the Hollywood Hills, and today I wanted to share a review from one of the students with you. This student came to me as a very new beginner in dating and within just a few months he had a three girl rotation!
Think about that for a second...
Are you seeing anyone right now? Wishing you were? Wishing that anytime you wanted sex you could just call one of your many women to come over? Are you still wondering what the fuck to wear? Are you still wanting to look and feel cool? What if you could finally feel that way, and you could do it quickly! What if you could fix yourself and move on to more important things in life, while still enjoying the benefits of a healthy sex life whenever you'd like?
Well one of my students has been doing just that. He went from zero women to having a 3 girl rotation in a very short period of time.
BUT HOW?
Tuesday, August 4, 2015
The Female DHV
When a woman's trying to impress you and establish her value, there's a common way that she does it, and the way she does it has been confusing men for millennia, so today I wanted to talk about it. But first! A story...
Tuesday, June 2, 2015
How to Date a Bartender
Everyone seems to want to have sex with the bartender. She's hot, charismatic, and she's always showing her cleavage in an effort to turn your $1 tip into more. So what's the deal with these women and how can you get one? Let's talk it out.
First off, you should know what you're getting yourself into with a bartender. Yes, bartenders are often hot, talkative, and charismatic, but remember these sometimes aren't women with spectacular career paths. In my experience, many of them bartend for a few years before moving on to better and better things, but there are also a good percentage of them that are just complete drunks without much of a future. Yup, I said it.
So how can you tell the difference?
Well, assuming you're looking for a serious relationship with a bartender, I find that a good thing to look at is her age. Obviously, if the bartender is over the age of 30 it's a solid bet that she's a lifer and will bartend indefinitely. Still though, if things are getting serious you should ask her about her aspirations and what her plan is to reach her goals. You never know.
On the other hand, if you're dating a bartender and she's still in her early 20's, then there's a good chance she's still in college or something along those lines. These types of girls I find have a much better shot of getting out of bartending and moving on to bigger and better things in life.
So what about bartenders age 25-29? These are an odd group, so watch her behavior. How much is she getting drunk? Does she exercise? Does she stay away from drinking completely? What does she do outside of work? These are all indicators of her overall health and wellness as it relates to drinking.
Lemme just come out and say it. Often bartenders aren't the healthiest of women and don't have a lot of promise when it comes to lifelong success and healthiness. In short, they can be drunks. So if you're looking for an outstanding woman and not just a fling, then it's important to qualify any bartender you meet before you end up emotionally attached to a woman who won't be a part of your long term goals and success.
So now that we've talked about what you're getting when you signup for a bartender, now let's talk about how to signup in the first place. The first thing you've gotta do with a bartender is find a time when you can say some words to her without getting interrupted or hampering her ability to work. That means don't try to chat her up when she's super busy. Wait until it's later in the night or come in before the rush, because otherwise you'll be getting rejected simply because you're an idiot and you don't understand that she actually is at work to do her job.
Secondly, a bartenders job is to be talkative, cordial, flirty, and chatty. With everyone. So you're not allowed to be jealous at all when she leaves you to flirt with another guy. Instead when she leaves you to chat, when she comes back if you wanna flirt a bit, tell her something like "So is it worth the extra tip to let him think you're gonna do him?"
Dating bartenders is all about understanding their world and communicating to them that you're not a part of the normal bar-going crowd. One way to do that is to talk about how they're extracting money from people through flirtatious behavior and showing of skin (much like stripper game). Another way to flirt with a bartender is by telling her she made your drink wrong. This works best when she knows for sure that your drink is perfect. Like say she pours you a beer. Upon getting my beer I might tell her something like "Geez! gross... didn't they tell you at bartending school how to make a beer? You didn't even mix this thing right or shake it up like you're supposed to! I want a refund." Be careful about mixed drinks though! If you don't communicate through effective tonality, she'll just matter-of-factly try and remake your drink cause she thinks it's bad.
So once you've got enough flirting in, look for her to ask you a couple questions about yourself, like where you're from or what you do. These are general indicators of interest that any girl would give, and bartenders often like to fake this type of interest, so when this happens I like to still go with it, I just do so tentatively and I don't really assume she likes me until she has said yes to giving me her number.
Getting a bartenders number can be tricky! Discretion is key. Make very sure not to be obvious about getting her number and make very certain none of her co-workers or her boss know she's giving it out. That'll kill your number close instantaneously! Instead, ask her her number while keeping your phone under the bar top or have her write it down for you and just text her.
Once you've got her number, remember that your meetup with this girl could have to happen at a weird time. Remember, she's probably working something like 8pm to 4am, and sometimes she'll be up till 8am drinking with other people she works with. This means she might be sleeping till 4 or 5 pm some days. Don't be an idiot and text her at 10am to ask her how her day is going, then call me and have me explain to you why she didn't text you till 5pm. And no, when she texts you at 5pm don't wait to text her till midnight because she made you wait 7 hours so you're going to do the same. C'mon dude! The best thing to do is simply to initiate texting, then after some texting ask her what her schedule is so that you can fit yourself into it.
So that's about it. As many of you know I bartended for years and i've got the inside scoop on what it takes to hookup with the bartender of your choice.
Cheers guys! Thanks for reading.
First off, you should know what you're getting yourself into with a bartender. Yes, bartenders are often hot, talkative, and charismatic, but remember these sometimes aren't women with spectacular career paths. In my experience, many of them bartend for a few years before moving on to better and better things, but there are also a good percentage of them that are just complete drunks without much of a future. Yup, I said it.
So how can you tell the difference?
Well, assuming you're looking for a serious relationship with a bartender, I find that a good thing to look at is her age. Obviously, if the bartender is over the age of 30 it's a solid bet that she's a lifer and will bartend indefinitely. Still though, if things are getting serious you should ask her about her aspirations and what her plan is to reach her goals. You never know.
On the other hand, if you're dating a bartender and she's still in her early 20's, then there's a good chance she's still in college or something along those lines. These types of girls I find have a much better shot of getting out of bartending and moving on to bigger and better things in life.
So what about bartenders age 25-29? These are an odd group, so watch her behavior. How much is she getting drunk? Does she exercise? Does she stay away from drinking completely? What does she do outside of work? These are all indicators of her overall health and wellness as it relates to drinking.
Lemme just come out and say it. Often bartenders aren't the healthiest of women and don't have a lot of promise when it comes to lifelong success and healthiness. In short, they can be drunks. So if you're looking for an outstanding woman and not just a fling, then it's important to qualify any bartender you meet before you end up emotionally attached to a woman who won't be a part of your long term goals and success.
So now that we've talked about what you're getting when you signup for a bartender, now let's talk about how to signup in the first place. The first thing you've gotta do with a bartender is find a time when you can say some words to her without getting interrupted or hampering her ability to work. That means don't try to chat her up when she's super busy. Wait until it's later in the night or come in before the rush, because otherwise you'll be getting rejected simply because you're an idiot and you don't understand that she actually is at work to do her job.
Secondly, a bartenders job is to be talkative, cordial, flirty, and chatty. With everyone. So you're not allowed to be jealous at all when she leaves you to flirt with another guy. Instead when she leaves you to chat, when she comes back if you wanna flirt a bit, tell her something like "So is it worth the extra tip to let him think you're gonna do him?"
Dating bartenders is all about understanding their world and communicating to them that you're not a part of the normal bar-going crowd. One way to do that is to talk about how they're extracting money from people through flirtatious behavior and showing of skin (much like stripper game). Another way to flirt with a bartender is by telling her she made your drink wrong. This works best when she knows for sure that your drink is perfect. Like say she pours you a beer. Upon getting my beer I might tell her something like "Geez! gross... didn't they tell you at bartending school how to make a beer? You didn't even mix this thing right or shake it up like you're supposed to! I want a refund." Be careful about mixed drinks though! If you don't communicate through effective tonality, she'll just matter-of-factly try and remake your drink cause she thinks it's bad.
So once you've got enough flirting in, look for her to ask you a couple questions about yourself, like where you're from or what you do. These are general indicators of interest that any girl would give, and bartenders often like to fake this type of interest, so when this happens I like to still go with it, I just do so tentatively and I don't really assume she likes me until she has said yes to giving me her number.
Getting a bartenders number can be tricky! Discretion is key. Make very sure not to be obvious about getting her number and make very certain none of her co-workers or her boss know she's giving it out. That'll kill your number close instantaneously! Instead, ask her her number while keeping your phone under the bar top or have her write it down for you and just text her.
Once you've got her number, remember that your meetup with this girl could have to happen at a weird time. Remember, she's probably working something like 8pm to 4am, and sometimes she'll be up till 8am drinking with other people she works with. This means she might be sleeping till 4 or 5 pm some days. Don't be an idiot and text her at 10am to ask her how her day is going, then call me and have me explain to you why she didn't text you till 5pm. And no, when she texts you at 5pm don't wait to text her till midnight because she made you wait 7 hours so you're going to do the same. C'mon dude! The best thing to do is simply to initiate texting, then after some texting ask her what her schedule is so that you can fit yourself into it.
So that's about it. As many of you know I bartended for years and i've got the inside scoop on what it takes to hookup with the bartender of your choice.
Cheers guys! Thanks for reading.
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