Hey guys! Jake here. I went out with a Girlfriend Fastlane member this weekend and wanted to share his review with you (it's below). Enjoy! And if you'd like to be a part of our amazing group and claim your free 30 minute phone consultation with me, simply email me jake@girlfriendfastlane.com and we'll get you in! There's still time to get in and acquainted before our live online training this Thursday at 3pm Pacific!
And now for the review! Thanks again Ray for joining me, and this is his review:
Introduction
There is something magical about learning under the guidance of a mentor in the field versus trying to learn on your own. I have taken a boot camp before, and a 1on1 with other dating coaches and I learned some small tips. However, I wish I would have worked with Jake sooner, as training with him was like getting private basketball lessons from Michael Jordan. At the end of my training, I felt confident with the plan Jake has given me the tools to upgrade my game to the next level and spur me along my goal of being able to walk into a place and pick up the hottest girl in the room.
Day 1
Day one started with meeting Jake in person for lunch in Hollywood. I have gotten phone coaching from him previously, but meeting him in person was a different experience. His presence when he walked into the room, was apparent as I caught girls in the lunch spot checking him out. We discussed my identity and what type of girls I am looking to date. It was insightful as we could tailor my current fashion. We went out to the mall, and I got to observe Jake use physical gestures and his natural game to talk to people throughout the day. He helped me pick out an entire outfit, so I had my ticket in when talking to my target girls. I was skeptical on how Jake would help with my hair since I have a short hairstyle. However, with his connections, he found a legit barbershop in West Hollywood that gave me a sick fade.
Later that night we went to a bar, where Jake observed my game and gave me pointers to improve my game. I called a 2 set to approach. My fashion helped get my foot in the door to speak; however, my game still needs some work. Luckily, Jake jumped in when he saw me struggling with the set. We ended up pulling those girls out of the venue around 1 am and going to another bar. It was unbelievable to see Jake spit natural game, and see how a girl who was initially a complete stranger was all over Jake. I kissed my girl and got a number close. However it was getting late, and Jake noticing the bigger picture told the girls to go home, since we had work to do, and it would not be wise to get drunk and sleep with these girls who would hinder Day 2.
Day 2
The following Day, met Jake and we go to Santa Monica at an outdoor bar venue. Ended up approaching more sets, under the guidance of Jake, and he gave me tips to slow down, as I was relying too heavily on routines. He had me focus more on relating to the girls and work more on my natural game, as up to this point I have been relying on routines to heavily. While at this day game spot, a girl approaches me from a group of 5 girls for a birthday party and ask me to talk to her friend. I laugh, as I never have girls approach me. I tell her to have her friend not be shy and just talk to me lol. I was not into the girl. However, it was fun bantering with the group.
I then approached one of the hottest girls in the venue, and she was attracted, however, I made the mistake of helping the girl look for her friends. This backfired immediately as guys started pulling her away from me while we walked to another area of the bar, and I was not aggressive enough to jump back in and take her away. Jake explained to me what I did and then had me go approach other sets. I was able to attract a sexy mixed girl, and number closed, she was also down to meet up later in the night. Jake tells me while I was gone, that she was talking to Jake about how I am probably talking to other girls and how hot I am lol. Another highlight was seeing Blake Griffin from the Clippers.
We take a quick break for dinner, then head off to a themed bar in Hollywood. I use a situational opener to approach a 2 set in the venue and meet a girl who is a match maker; it was funny to see her explain to Jake how she matches people up and gets them dating. However what Jake is doing is much stronger than someone using dating algorithms to match you, as Jake is showing you how to fish rather than providing you the fish. I also had a good experience with adversity as I ended up using a 1950s housewife role play which backfired, and a group of 4 girls was telling me to go away. I laughed and told them I am not going anywhere, and that they were more than welcome to go away. It was good to know that whatever happened that night, which I could handle it. We end up going to another bar, and I get into a physical dominance struggle where the girl slapped me as I was making fun of her. However, it was fun for me as me, and the girl was laughing the whole time. The bar closes, and I end up number closing a different girl outside the bar.
Day 3
The final day, plans got altered as I had an instant date with a girl I met that morning. I ended up going to Disney Land with her and didn't get back to Hollywood until late in the evening. Jake told me to meet him at one of the most popular bars in Hollywood. The line was out the door and spilling over to the next block. I was waiting in line and overheard some people complain that they would not be getting inside. I was feeling slightly intimated by the huge line. However when Jake arrived he fived me, and we skipped the line, as he knew the staff and got us right into the venue. I felt like I was rolling with the mayor of Hollywood. Inside I ask Jake to demo a dominance struggle for me. It was quite the feat to observe as he had a physically dominant lesbian punk rocker chick, go from being closed off to smitten like a kitten over Jake. I approached a few more sets, and had a successful dominance struggle of my own; however the girl was out with her friends for a birthday night out, and I did not follow up with her.
I end up running into Jesus from the tv show Walking Dead, and it was cool to see a celebrity being down to earth and chat with me.
Later we see a pickup instructor "Tyler" out with his students, and it was great to see him show Jake respect, by admitting that Jake's game is on another level. Later that night as we are standing in a circle talking with Tyler and his students, a girl is walking by in a flower dress which was previously approached by Tyler and his students and walks across the circle to hug Jake. It was quite the feat as Jake had not spoken to her previously. However, she was attracted by his dominance. Jake could have easily pulled that girl, however being a good coach, he was more invested in my success.
The night ends with me getting a number close off a girl who was already approached by Tyler's students. Jake gave me an overview of lessons from our time together and helped me to understand what skills I needed to work on to propel me towards my goals.
Conclusion
It has been a week since I had my 1on1 coaching with Jake and already reaping the benefits. I went from getting 5% of girls attracted to me, to closer to 50% attracted to me. My first day out on my own after training with Jake, I was able to get 3 number closes, with one of them transitioning to a date with a hot 18-year-old girl. Some of the lessons learned include learning how not to look so needy while I am talking to girls, how to read girls emotional state to help with relating to them, and how to improve my verbal game. To anyone who wants to improve their game and is on the fence about getting coaching, I recommend jumping off that fence and contacting Jake asap. Getting live training with Jake is one of the best decisions I have made in helping me get closer to my goal of being free to date the hottest girls possible.
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