At some point in your progress through the game, you might find out that you can open, attract, kino, and get numbers well. Great. However, many people that are in this position will get those numbers but convert them into a very low percentage of dates. I, myself had the "lots of numbers in LA but tons of flakes" problem and at first I got frustrated. Very soon after I crushed the problem with a huge fucking hammer.
What I found out though is that attraction and kino is enough for the moment, but only THAT moment. The long-term result of attraction and kino that are done perfectly is that the girl will DEFINITELY remember you, but probably not feel CONNECTED with you. This is why she won't answer your texts or call you back.
How do I get her connected, you ask? You can establish that connection in a few ways, but right here i'd like to talk about three of them with you.
1. Establishing commonalities
2. Conveying your identity with sincerity about what's happening with the two of you
3. Truthfulness with built-in rapport breaking
So here we go.
1. Establishing commonalities. This one's self explanatory, but the basic formula is to get the girl talking, then when she says she did X thing, you're going to say anything and everything that you know about that thing. In my case, I wear two rings on my left hand. One's from Bali, Indonesia and the other is from my trip to Ibiza, Spain. Anytime the girl talks about traveling (and they all do) then I tell them about my travels and how I wear my trips on my hand. Works wonderfully. A commonality can be as ingrained as that, or it could be something stupid like "Oh you drink Diet Coke? No shit so do i. OMG i'm so addicted to it and I found out through my addiction that everyone who drinks diet coke it addicted. Crazy huh?" Done. Do this well with just one thing that's deeper like my traveling thing and you can get laid from it, or just do it with some smaller things like the diet coke thing. Calibrate this to the depth, intelligence level, and energy level of the girl and situation and you're golden. Learn this calibration through trial and error.
2. Conveying your identity. If you've attracted the girl and kino'd her, but she looks back on the interaction and doesn't know "What you are" (and can't tell her friends) then she won't answer phone calls. What are you and why will she find out?
In my case, I look like a rocker so girls always ask if i'm in a band, or what I do. That's the why of why she'll find out. The "what I am" will come when she asks. When she does, I tell her the honest story about how and why I came to Hollywood (leaving out the dating thing of course). I tell her a quick synopsis of important older events of my life and how they lead me to my current situation. This story shouldn't be super long.
Here's the important part, and the super-successful way that it gets both of us on the same page. So at this point in the interaction, i've opened, she's attracted, i've been kinoing, and i've established some commonalities.
I usually say something like "Oh, where i'm from X happens or X is how we do something." This prompts her to ask about where i'm from and what brought me to Hollywood. Are you with me here?
When she asks, I start to act like i'm going to tell her, then I stop, change my tone to a more genuine/serious one, slow it down and "Are we.....? (quick pause) Do you really want to know?"
When I say "Are we....?" I kind of do a back and forth motion from me to her with my hand. I'm basically saying to her "Are we getting somewhere with this and is this a serious inquiry into my life from somebody who's genuinely interested in me and a possible sexual/intimate relationship OR if it's not then ......."
**Note that this is a great place to isolate the girl! "It's kinda loud here, let's go over here for a second."**
Does this make sense? I'll tell you that after the word OR in the previous sentance that I don't know what happens there because I've never heard them say no. EVERYTIME they get more serious, I "closen" the kino (make it more intimate, like a bf and gf would do) and they get VERY serious about listening to me. This is a great time to get them to sit on your lap or escalate towards a makeout. It almost always happens after this. Are you with me here?
3. Truthfullness with built-in rapport breaking. This is a simple concept that TONS of guys REALLY FUCKUP in pickup and when talking with women. Basically it's this: Be honest. I'm not talking about spilling something you shouldn't. I'm talking about being honest about your likes and dislikes.
I'll give you an example: The girl says something like "I like the band Nickelback. They're my favorite." Let's say for a second that you don't like Nickelback (thereby making you awesome). A lot of guys who hate Nickelback in this situation wouldn't say something like "Fuck that, I hate Nickelback. They can smoke my pole" because somehow they have something telling them in their head that if they don't like what the girl likes then they won't be qualified to be with this chick and/or she won't like them if they say something negative about something the girl likes. Instead what comes out is "Hmmm, well they're okay, but I really like X." Guess what's happened here? You've accepted her frame in an attempt to gain rapport with her.
This is a pretty subtle thing to pickup on and learn, but it's something everyone learning pickup should understand eventually. I call it being honest with built-in rapport breaking because you're not going to ever run into a girl who has everything in the world in common with you, so when you actually take the honest road on these types of things and tell the girl your honest opinion, you're essentially breaking rapport with her and inviting her to now accept your frame of, in this case, how sucky Nickelback is. Make sense? You're demonstrating that you don't care about if she likes you or not (non-neediness), inviting her to try and chase you and accept your frame (dominance). Do this and observe how many times the girl will be the one who backpedals, saying something like "Well, you're right, they're not the best" or something like that. She does this because you've shown her that you'll be honest even at the cost of her not liking you, and now that she can't lump you in with all the guys who do this, she's attracted and now doesn't want to lose you!. Wow. What a great result! All you had to do was be honest about shit! I really hope this sinks in with anyone reading because I think it's a fantastic thing to learn.
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Tuesday, May 9, 2023
How to Make Women Hit on You
What's up pickup fam. It's Jake and I'm making some videos on YouTube now as Jake Payton. I'll also be on linkedin, twitter (Click here for link to Social medias) , and starting to do some shorts on if I can figure out how to edit, etc. If you're a ninja at this I NEED YOU so we can exchange services. Currently I'm in North Carolina.
Anyways, here's the video and I hope you like it..
Sunday, August 7, 2022
Pickup Guy Approached Jake P. & Student... Poorly.
Hey guys long time no pen.
For whatever reason, YouTube has been on my mind a lot lately and I'm thinking of doing a video or two or a hundred. Anything you'd like to see? I'm thinking right now I might do a "Blogpost Series" where I go through all of these old blogposts and do videos on them. What do you think? Comment below.
Additionally I wanna tell you about someone who did an approach on my student and I while we were in a set last weekend.
So I'm coaching my latest client and a guy comes up and to our 5 set (me, student, 3 women) and just interrupts all of us saying "What's up everybody?"
Then he stares at us all as if we're supposed to be his best friend, and I'll be honest with you... if I hadn't immediately thought he was a pickup student I'd have ignored him entirely, or worse. Instead, I decided to pause and see what the group would do with the guy, and since everyone was warmed up and in a good laughing mood (because of me), they let him in.
Later I ended up somehow standing next to the guy and I asked him "So how's the pickup going?" which is probably the least enjoyable question to get when you're new at approaching people. Of course he's like "Oh what do you mean?" and I explained to him that I know what he's doing and I'm a coach so he can drop the oblivious act.
So what is this whole thing about?
1. OPENING A GROUP OF 5 PEOPLE BY TRYING TO ADDRESS ALL OF THEM AT ONCE IS DUMB.
2. IF YOU'RE WANTING TO GET INTO A GROUP, OPEN ONE PERSON IN THE GROUP (GIRL OR GUY) AND INCLUDE WHOEVER DECIDED TO LOOK.
3. OPEN WITH IMPACT YOU IDIOT!!!
Let's go through these one by one in a bit more detail:
First off let's chat about opening groups with more than 3 people in them. When I first started approaching, I had heard that it's a think to just open like 8 people by getting their attention all at once. Total horse shit. I tried this many many times, and in fact I did it while coaching often, and it always turned out poorly because people just don't do this. Alpha males don't do this.
Here's what happened to me: I made a damned fool of myself.
The reality here is that it's a MUCH better play to just position yourself on the side of the group, wait for an opening, then open someone on the edge of the group. If someone else starts listening to you then address them with your eyes and include them that way. Then when you're accepted by those first couple people it'll be much more likely that you'll get accepted by the group.
That very same night I was coaching and that very thing happened to me. I chatted with 2 girls at the back of the drink like and they happened to be with two more who were adjacent to them. They joined, the girls let them know "he's cool" and then all was good. They loved me.
Next up, opening with impact.
Sorry guys, "What's up everybody" isn't going to cut it. It's low impact and assumes FAR too much that you'll get compliance from the group you're opening. The reality here is that if you're not offering obvious value of some sort (like maybe you look super cool or you have a couple chicks with you), asking people what's up and then not saying anything just pisses people off. You know what I thought? I'm like "So that's it motherfucker?"
BORING.
So open with some impact. Talk about a funny situation you just saw, give a compliment, do an opener that's professionally scripted and has been proven to work well, etc.
DON'T BE AN IDIOT.
That's all for today guys, thanks for reading.
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Saturday, April 18, 2020
Nothing To See Here... Much Longer
Hey guys, long time no pen.
I hope you're all doing super well and getting through this whole 'Rona bullshit without harm to you and yours. Truly I do.
As for me, I've been holed up in my West Hollywood apartment for awhile. First two weeks of quarantine for me were basically a daily beer and weed festival with occasional Netflix (if i'm honest I did watch the Tiger King lol), so that was fun for a bit. I've been collecting some vinyl and enjoying my 70's McIntosh Stereo system to it's fullest as well, and no covid "me lung flu long time" for me, so I'm lucky.
But! As most things do, TV, beers, weed and sex got old and boring, so I started getting back to getting some work done. I can report that I've done a couple cool things, and I'm working on even more cool things.
First off, some free content! My older brother has decided to start his own YouTube show/podcast, so he asked me to do an interview about my journey through dating and business. We chatted last night for a little over an hour and 15 minutes about everything from my first approach using Horsegirl to my current business situation. It's a little personal for me to let everyone in on my family, but at this point i'm kinda like fuck it, let it roll, you know?
Click here to watch the video interview
One thing you guys might be interested in taking a peek at is that my brother is a total natural. He was a 4-sport letter winner in high school and went on to get a college scholarship and try out as a punter for the NFL.
I've always tried to understand how he's so good at making fast friends with people, and I've even pitched him to see if he'd make a tutorial for girlfriend fast lane on jakepayton.com to explain what he's doing. He's not a "conscious" guy about what he's doing though, so who knows if that'll ever happen. One things for sure though, he can walk in a bar and be friends with new people in 5 seconds, the asshole! I never had it that easy, and I'm anything but a sports guy. In fact, growing up people didn't even call me Jake, they called me "DJ's little brother." Fucking dicks.
Anyways, I think you'll enjoy the interview so that's why i'm posting it.
The next thing coming down the pipeline is i've started new or updated all my social media finally!
You can follow me on the major 7 platforms including NEWLY ADDED TikTok and Linkedin! Just click on these links pretty pretty please if you would:
https://twitter.com/jakepulls
https://www.facebook.com/jakepaytonofficial/
https://www.instagram.com/jakepaytonofficial/
https://vm.tiktok.com/WqupAN/
http://linkedin.com/in/jake-payton-5969221a6
https://www.youtube.com/user/jakepulls
Other things going on...
So I've been still coaching a TON throughout this quarantine. I've also been having some amazing long chats with an old Brad P. coach that we've been recording, and we're conjuring up a way to use the audio from them for content, so you'll see that coming through soon perhaps in audio or otherwise. I'm finally to the point where I'm past the old girlfriend fast lane website woes, so now that the website functions without breaking I can focus on free content and growing the brand. I truly hope you'll join me for the ride and be some of the first guys to help me grow. Any time that you can share and spread the word you'll be helping this 13 year devoted dating guy keep going at it without dropping out or selling out. After all, the reality is that there isn't another guy in the WORLD who has the ability to make girls approach him like I do, and I gave you guys that free content first almost 8 years ago in the "She's Not Even In the Fucking Room" Post.
But there's some bad news too...
This blog will stay here, but I'm planning on completely stopping writing on it. To take it's place, I'm putting the blog right on jakepayton.com where I can re-write and perfect the old content, and you guys won't be hearing endless pitches from me anymore, lol. I'm gonna give out tons of free shit, and the paid stuff will be for guys who want personal help.
In other words, I'm gonna try and grow up. In fact, I'll be turning 40 years old next month (May, 2020). But don't think that'll stop me from hitting the bars for the next 10 years and giving this shit a go for as long as possible. With any luck my old crotchety ass will be wheeled into bars in my wheelchair so I can watch guys do approaches from the comfort of some space cart Elon Musk will probably develop soon for the geriatric. HA!
So that's it for today guys. I'd like to thank those of you who have been along with me in this past 13 and a half years now since I started coaching. It's been nothing but wild, and today I was hunting through past nudie pics i've got and I was wowed at the amazing journey i've had since I was a super frustrated chumpy total NEWB.
Now i'm not though.
Cheers guys, I love ya! Keep yourselves safe and stay the fuck inside! See if you can masterbate on live chat with girls from dating sites until we can all get back into the bars. I'll catch up with you very soon...
I hope you're all doing super well and getting through this whole 'Rona bullshit without harm to you and yours. Truly I do.
As for me, I've been holed up in my West Hollywood apartment for awhile. First two weeks of quarantine for me were basically a daily beer and weed festival with occasional Netflix (if i'm honest I did watch the Tiger King lol), so that was fun for a bit. I've been collecting some vinyl and enjoying my 70's McIntosh Stereo system to it's fullest as well, and no covid "me lung flu long time" for me, so I'm lucky.
But! As most things do, TV, beers, weed and sex got old and boring, so I started getting back to getting some work done. I can report that I've done a couple cool things, and I'm working on even more cool things.
First off, some free content! My older brother has decided to start his own YouTube show/podcast, so he asked me to do an interview about my journey through dating and business. We chatted last night for a little over an hour and 15 minutes about everything from my first approach using Horsegirl to my current business situation. It's a little personal for me to let everyone in on my family, but at this point i'm kinda like fuck it, let it roll, you know?
Click here to watch the video interview
One thing you guys might be interested in taking a peek at is that my brother is a total natural. He was a 4-sport letter winner in high school and went on to get a college scholarship and try out as a punter for the NFL.
I've always tried to understand how he's so good at making fast friends with people, and I've even pitched him to see if he'd make a tutorial for girlfriend fast lane on jakepayton.com to explain what he's doing. He's not a "conscious" guy about what he's doing though, so who knows if that'll ever happen. One things for sure though, he can walk in a bar and be friends with new people in 5 seconds, the asshole! I never had it that easy, and I'm anything but a sports guy. In fact, growing up people didn't even call me Jake, they called me "DJ's little brother." Fucking dicks.
Anyways, I think you'll enjoy the interview so that's why i'm posting it.
The next thing coming down the pipeline is i've started new or updated all my social media finally!
You can follow me on the major 7 platforms including NEWLY ADDED TikTok and Linkedin! Just click on these links pretty pretty please if you would:
https://twitter.com/jakepulls
https://www.facebook.com/jakepaytonofficial/
https://www.instagram.com/jakepaytonofficial/
https://vm.tiktok.com/WqupAN/
http://linkedin.com/in/jake-payton-5969221a6
https://www.youtube.com/user/jakepulls
Other things going on...
So I've been still coaching a TON throughout this quarantine. I've also been having some amazing long chats with an old Brad P. coach that we've been recording, and we're conjuring up a way to use the audio from them for content, so you'll see that coming through soon perhaps in audio or otherwise. I'm finally to the point where I'm past the old girlfriend fast lane website woes, so now that the website functions without breaking I can focus on free content and growing the brand. I truly hope you'll join me for the ride and be some of the first guys to help me grow. Any time that you can share and spread the word you'll be helping this 13 year devoted dating guy keep going at it without dropping out or selling out. After all, the reality is that there isn't another guy in the WORLD who has the ability to make girls approach him like I do, and I gave you guys that free content first almost 8 years ago in the "She's Not Even In the Fucking Room" Post.
But there's some bad news too...
This blog will stay here, but I'm planning on completely stopping writing on it. To take it's place, I'm putting the blog right on jakepayton.com where I can re-write and perfect the old content, and you guys won't be hearing endless pitches from me anymore, lol. I'm gonna give out tons of free shit, and the paid stuff will be for guys who want personal help.
In other words, I'm gonna try and grow up. In fact, I'll be turning 40 years old next month (May, 2020). But don't think that'll stop me from hitting the bars for the next 10 years and giving this shit a go for as long as possible. With any luck my old crotchety ass will be wheeled into bars in my wheelchair so I can watch guys do approaches from the comfort of some space cart Elon Musk will probably develop soon for the geriatric. HA!
So that's it for today guys. I'd like to thank those of you who have been along with me in this past 13 and a half years now since I started coaching. It's been nothing but wild, and today I was hunting through past nudie pics i've got and I was wowed at the amazing journey i've had since I was a super frustrated chumpy total NEWB.
Now i'm not though.
Cheers guys, I love ya! Keep yourselves safe and stay the fuck inside! See if you can masterbate on live chat with girls from dating sites until we can all get back into the bars. I'll catch up with you very soon...
Tuesday, November 26, 2019
It's Alive! The New Girlfriend Fastlane & Black Friday Deal.
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Tuesday, October 8, 2019
Here's the REAL MAGIC PILL You've been searching for. Not a joke.
Yooooo guys! Hi again. I know it's been awhile.
Today I wanna talk about what's been on my mind lately, and it's likely something you've not heard before. Spoiler alert: I'm not selling you anything today, so just a good read.
First off, though, a quick update on the new website. Yes, the new website is coming down the pipeline. I had an unfortunate setback with a web developer and lost a significant amount of time and money, but I assure you I'm working through this problem and the new website is going to be better than ever... (like, it'll have a homepage and it'll work without issues, lol). I could still use some help though, so if you're a guy with more time and skills than budget, get ahold of me! I'm searching hard for someone capable of video editing on Adobe Premier Pro and I need some graphic design, so if you've got those I'm happy to take you out and get you some women. Email me at jakepulls@gmail.com if this is you. It's a chance to get free coaching and get into my inner circle, and if your game is in my mind it's a very good thing.
The other update going on is that I'm about 90% booked out till the end of January right now (woohoo!) so if you want some coaching you can still get some, there are just not any full weekends available until February.
Okay, updates over.
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the evolution of game. I've been chatting with some "older" students who have trained with every company across the board, and when they find out my dominance struggle theory they go crazy. Not joking, they go fucking crazy and get super excited.
"You mean I don't just have to go out and say all these crazy memorized routines and hope they stick?"
Correct.
"Wait, but is this natural???"
No.
"So what is it?"
It's the ability to flex your creative muscle in order to create a dominance struggle. And it's what I believe to be the single most important factor in determining how good you'll be with women for the rest of your life.
Let me explain.
I'm sure many of you guys are listening to Joe Rogan's podcast, and to me the life of a comedian has many similarities with the life of a guy who is learning dating. We both do "sets," and we both go through this ABSOLUTELY CRAZY task of flopping like hell until we ever-so-slowly learn our skill set bit-by-bit. The end result is that to the layman you are just killing it! You're prepared for any and everything someone might think in their head or try and do to you before they ever attempt it. I can literally count down the seconds until a girl approaches me or re-opens me, and it's a symptom of the original "embrace and extend" theory that Brad P. taught me years and years ago.
The concept is this: When you embrace the concept behind a routine because you've done that routine a bunch, you'll soon start to branch off of the original words and use the concept in different places. This extension in your ability to use the theory opens up new doors to new things to say, and when you write those things down, you can repeat them forever and they always work, and it's because the original concept or theory behind the routine you learned still works.
Got it?
So what happens when you can do this with dominance struggles and how does that relate to the current state of game that's taught across the dating industry?
First off, it's obvious that much of the dating industry still teaches routines (myself included). They're a great way to start you out and get you through the initial stages of overcoming your fear and being able to open and start getting attraction. Cool. The problem with this method of coaching was that students experienced extreme backlash from women when women "found out" that the student wasn't as charismatic as he was professing to be. Often and expectedly, the routines were delivered terribly with poor facial expression, tonality, and overall energy, and it caused havoc.
Enter "Natural Game."
Backlash from what you could call really really unnatural game caused the industry to adjust. Now the plan was to sell "Natural Game," which I can only imagine was some dumb "be yourself" shit that coaches tries to adjust to or something? I'm not sure, I never jumped on this marketing train. It's important to note though that GUYS FUCKING KNEW that pickup and routines were unnatural, even when those guys were not the most social guys.
Okay, so we started with super unnatural game, then went to trying to do the most natural game ever (read: guys flopping super miserably).
So what's the end game here? Where does the dating industry end up?
The way I see it, we end up teaching a way of gaming that absolutely appear natural in every way to the woman. In other words, you didn't walk up from 20 feet away, you didn't say an awkward long memorized line, and you have plausible deniability that you're even making an approach. In other words, should she accuse you of hitting on her you could EASILY make a quick and solid argument against that frame. (quick for instance, if you said "Uh, you bumped into me lady. Get over yourself.")
So what's the minimum amount of canned "game" we need and how can we make this process seem absolutely like "it just happened" to the woman? What MUST we do and what can we absolutely not do?
Well, there are things that you absolutely cannot NOT do.
For instance, you can't NOT open (until you're at a higher level and you can do my "she's not even in the room" stuff, which for the record I've never seen another human be able to do). To make your opening as natural as possible, it MUST be situational, it MUST be something normal guys would say, or it MUST be a spin on something a normal guy would say.
Spoiler alert: I already teach exactly this, and you can do it. You already do.
Second thing you can't not do: You also can't NOT continue speaking after you open a girl. You simply MUST continue talking after your opener. You talk 100% and she talks 0%. This is the rule. Be the guy you are around your friends and family who doesn't hold back in any way. Show her 100% the true you.
That covers opening and the beginning of attraction.
Next up, what's the end-game of attraction?
News Flash: It's dominance struggles. Women screen first by seeing if your level of social dominance is even worth paying attention to, then by trying to socially dominate you for clarification of your value. THAT'S IT. Done.
Now we come to the interesting part of things, because if you're a guy who just doesn't communicate enough value to the woman in front of you, then you won't be able to practice dominance struggles. She'll simply not respond to you and you won't get tested by her, and not you can't practice this most important skill in the entire world. Womp. That sucks.
So we need a method for practicing dominance struggles, and we need it to be natural and not routine-y.
This is where our creativity is necessary.
The task at hand for a guy learning dating is to be able to practice the dominance struggle "dance," and the minimum way we can do this is by giving you... you guessed it... a canned line!
Yayyyy, more canned shit... I know.
It's important though! It's a very small, short line, and it's the ONLY line you'll ever have to learn, I assure you.
Remember earlier when I talked about embracing a concept and then extending it? This small bit of a beginning script is the FIRST STEP you'll take towards gaining the skill set of CREATING DOMINANCE STRUGGLES WITHOUT SCRIPTS.
Now stop, please. This is the single most important thing I can possibly tell you in your whole life.
When you can create dominance struggles "on the fly" or seemingly out of nowhere with a woman, and you can do so in the context of a role-play, you will never in your life struggle with women ever again.
Let's talk about the IMMENSE benefits of this:
1. 100% Natural, because it's based on what you're already seeing, hearing, and feeling in that moment.
2. MINIMUM AMOUNT OF "CANNED" or "SCRIPTED" LINES. Literally it's one fucking line I give you and maybe an opener or two which have now become a few words you're already saying. This is literally the minimum you can do of using lines.
3. Allows you a platform for practice and development of your dominance struggling skill set (the skills you'll need your entire life if you want to keep a women or get infinitely many new women).
4. Always maximizes your chances at getting attraction, because women use this screen to literally decide if they're attracted.
5. Over time you develop your creativity more and more, and in doing so you become more and more "natural" in your appearance to the women you meet. Yes, you're using a theory, but you're using it in the way YOU use it. This means its 100% congruent. You can't be "caught" doing this because it'll never come off like a line.
So that's it. The "end game" for everyone and anyone in the dating industry will be to learn this simple formula of being able to open in a seemingly natural and therefore plausibly deniable way and then creatively start a dominance struggle (as a means to attraction) with the woman in front of you.
(Note here that when I'm talking about opening, I'm talking about obeying the first rule of attraction, which is that for a girl to get attracted to you, she has to NOT know if she could "get you.")
Also, for good measure let's throw in the 2nd rule of attraction (first time announcing this):
The second rule of attraction is that if a girl somehow gets the idea that she could have you if she wants to, you must CREATE DOUBT in her mind if you want to get that girl.
...and by doubt I mean real, plausible doubt, not just saying something like "whatever you couldn't have me!" or some other uncalibrated shit. She must actually get the idea that she was wrong about her initial impression.
So that's it.
The "end game" for the dating industry gives guys who are learning about women:
1. The ability to open in a plausibly deniable way so that the woman doesn't instantly think she could have the guy if she wanted
and
2. The ability to learn and practice how to attract women using the woman's own screening mechanism.
Do you know anyone else's method in the dating industry that accomplishes both of these? I sure don't.
And by the way, these two points have EXTREME BENEFITS FOR THE STUDENT!
1. When you can open in a plausibly deniable way, it eliminates approach anxiety! When you don't feel like she "knows" you're hitting on her, how nervous do you feel? Probably not nervous at all, right? Yeah... me neither.
2. When you can practice beating a woman's screening mechanism, you're like a comic working on his material over and over until you can creatively do this in a fun way for you, and there is no better way to keep you interested in the process.
It should be FUN to hit on women!
It should NOT be scary, anxiety-inducing punishment that makes you wanna stay at home, get high, order a pizza, eat it, then jerk off to porn while getting fatter by the minute, only to end up a super-alone creepy weirdo.
Cool. So that's my lesson today. Hope you liked it.
For more on this visit girlfriendfastlane.com or email me: jakepulls@gmail.com
See you guys soon.
Today I wanna talk about what's been on my mind lately, and it's likely something you've not heard before. Spoiler alert: I'm not selling you anything today, so just a good read.
First off, though, a quick update on the new website. Yes, the new website is coming down the pipeline. I had an unfortunate setback with a web developer and lost a significant amount of time and money, but I assure you I'm working through this problem and the new website is going to be better than ever... (like, it'll have a homepage and it'll work without issues, lol). I could still use some help though, so if you're a guy with more time and skills than budget, get ahold of me! I'm searching hard for someone capable of video editing on Adobe Premier Pro and I need some graphic design, so if you've got those I'm happy to take you out and get you some women. Email me at jakepulls@gmail.com if this is you. It's a chance to get free coaching and get into my inner circle, and if your game is in my mind it's a very good thing.
The other update going on is that I'm about 90% booked out till the end of January right now (woohoo!) so if you want some coaching you can still get some, there are just not any full weekends available until February.
Okay, updates over.
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the evolution of game. I've been chatting with some "older" students who have trained with every company across the board, and when they find out my dominance struggle theory they go crazy. Not joking, they go fucking crazy and get super excited.
"You mean I don't just have to go out and say all these crazy memorized routines and hope they stick?"
Correct.
"Wait, but is this natural???"
No.
"So what is it?"
It's the ability to flex your creative muscle in order to create a dominance struggle. And it's what I believe to be the single most important factor in determining how good you'll be with women for the rest of your life.
Let me explain.
I'm sure many of you guys are listening to Joe Rogan's podcast, and to me the life of a comedian has many similarities with the life of a guy who is learning dating. We both do "sets," and we both go through this ABSOLUTELY CRAZY task of flopping like hell until we ever-so-slowly learn our skill set bit-by-bit. The end result is that to the layman you are just killing it! You're prepared for any and everything someone might think in their head or try and do to you before they ever attempt it. I can literally count down the seconds until a girl approaches me or re-opens me, and it's a symptom of the original "embrace and extend" theory that Brad P. taught me years and years ago.
The concept is this: When you embrace the concept behind a routine because you've done that routine a bunch, you'll soon start to branch off of the original words and use the concept in different places. This extension in your ability to use the theory opens up new doors to new things to say, and when you write those things down, you can repeat them forever and they always work, and it's because the original concept or theory behind the routine you learned still works.
Got it?
So what happens when you can do this with dominance struggles and how does that relate to the current state of game that's taught across the dating industry?
First off, it's obvious that much of the dating industry still teaches routines (myself included). They're a great way to start you out and get you through the initial stages of overcoming your fear and being able to open and start getting attraction. Cool. The problem with this method of coaching was that students experienced extreme backlash from women when women "found out" that the student wasn't as charismatic as he was professing to be. Often and expectedly, the routines were delivered terribly with poor facial expression, tonality, and overall energy, and it caused havoc.
Enter "Natural Game."
Backlash from what you could call really really unnatural game caused the industry to adjust. Now the plan was to sell "Natural Game," which I can only imagine was some dumb "be yourself" shit that coaches tries to adjust to or something? I'm not sure, I never jumped on this marketing train. It's important to note though that GUYS FUCKING KNEW that pickup and routines were unnatural, even when those guys were not the most social guys.
Okay, so we started with super unnatural game, then went to trying to do the most natural game ever (read: guys flopping super miserably).
So what's the end game here? Where does the dating industry end up?
The way I see it, we end up teaching a way of gaming that absolutely appear natural in every way to the woman. In other words, you didn't walk up from 20 feet away, you didn't say an awkward long memorized line, and you have plausible deniability that you're even making an approach. In other words, should she accuse you of hitting on her you could EASILY make a quick and solid argument against that frame. (quick for instance, if you said "Uh, you bumped into me lady. Get over yourself.")
So what's the minimum amount of canned "game" we need and how can we make this process seem absolutely like "it just happened" to the woman? What MUST we do and what can we absolutely not do?
Well, there are things that you absolutely cannot NOT do.
For instance, you can't NOT open (until you're at a higher level and you can do my "she's not even in the room" stuff, which for the record I've never seen another human be able to do). To make your opening as natural as possible, it MUST be situational, it MUST be something normal guys would say, or it MUST be a spin on something a normal guy would say.
Spoiler alert: I already teach exactly this, and you can do it. You already do.
Second thing you can't not do: You also can't NOT continue speaking after you open a girl. You simply MUST continue talking after your opener. You talk 100% and she talks 0%. This is the rule. Be the guy you are around your friends and family who doesn't hold back in any way. Show her 100% the true you.
That covers opening and the beginning of attraction.
Next up, what's the end-game of attraction?
News Flash: It's dominance struggles. Women screen first by seeing if your level of social dominance is even worth paying attention to, then by trying to socially dominate you for clarification of your value. THAT'S IT. Done.
Now we come to the interesting part of things, because if you're a guy who just doesn't communicate enough value to the woman in front of you, then you won't be able to practice dominance struggles. She'll simply not respond to you and you won't get tested by her, and not you can't practice this most important skill in the entire world. Womp. That sucks.
So we need a method for practicing dominance struggles, and we need it to be natural and not routine-y.
This is where our creativity is necessary.
The task at hand for a guy learning dating is to be able to practice the dominance struggle "dance," and the minimum way we can do this is by giving you... you guessed it... a canned line!
Yayyyy, more canned shit... I know.
It's important though! It's a very small, short line, and it's the ONLY line you'll ever have to learn, I assure you.
Remember earlier when I talked about embracing a concept and then extending it? This small bit of a beginning script is the FIRST STEP you'll take towards gaining the skill set of CREATING DOMINANCE STRUGGLES WITHOUT SCRIPTS.
Now stop, please. This is the single most important thing I can possibly tell you in your whole life.
When you can create dominance struggles "on the fly" or seemingly out of nowhere with a woman, and you can do so in the context of a role-play, you will never in your life struggle with women ever again.
Let's talk about the IMMENSE benefits of this:
1. 100% Natural, because it's based on what you're already seeing, hearing, and feeling in that moment.
2. MINIMUM AMOUNT OF "CANNED" or "SCRIPTED" LINES. Literally it's one fucking line I give you and maybe an opener or two which have now become a few words you're already saying. This is literally the minimum you can do of using lines.
3. Allows you a platform for practice and development of your dominance struggling skill set (the skills you'll need your entire life if you want to keep a women or get infinitely many new women).
4. Always maximizes your chances at getting attraction, because women use this screen to literally decide if they're attracted.
5. Over time you develop your creativity more and more, and in doing so you become more and more "natural" in your appearance to the women you meet. Yes, you're using a theory, but you're using it in the way YOU use it. This means its 100% congruent. You can't be "caught" doing this because it'll never come off like a line.
So that's it. The "end game" for everyone and anyone in the dating industry will be to learn this simple formula of being able to open in a seemingly natural and therefore plausibly deniable way and then creatively start a dominance struggle (as a means to attraction) with the woman in front of you.
(Note here that when I'm talking about opening, I'm talking about obeying the first rule of attraction, which is that for a girl to get attracted to you, she has to NOT know if she could "get you.")
Also, for good measure let's throw in the 2nd rule of attraction (first time announcing this):
The second rule of attraction is that if a girl somehow gets the idea that she could have you if she wants to, you must CREATE DOUBT in her mind if you want to get that girl.
...and by doubt I mean real, plausible doubt, not just saying something like "whatever you couldn't have me!" or some other uncalibrated shit. She must actually get the idea that she was wrong about her initial impression.
So that's it.
The "end game" for the dating industry gives guys who are learning about women:
1. The ability to open in a plausibly deniable way so that the woman doesn't instantly think she could have the guy if she wanted
and
2. The ability to learn and practice how to attract women using the woman's own screening mechanism.
Do you know anyone else's method in the dating industry that accomplishes both of these? I sure don't.
And by the way, these two points have EXTREME BENEFITS FOR THE STUDENT!
1. When you can open in a plausibly deniable way, it eliminates approach anxiety! When you don't feel like she "knows" you're hitting on her, how nervous do you feel? Probably not nervous at all, right? Yeah... me neither.
2. When you can practice beating a woman's screening mechanism, you're like a comic working on his material over and over until you can creatively do this in a fun way for you, and there is no better way to keep you interested in the process.
It should be FUN to hit on women!
It should NOT be scary, anxiety-inducing punishment that makes you wanna stay at home, get high, order a pizza, eat it, then jerk off to porn while getting fatter by the minute, only to end up a super-alone creepy weirdo.
Cool. So that's my lesson today. Hope you liked it.
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See you guys soon.
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
The Four Relationship Conditions
If I'm honest, not a lot of things interest me in the dating realm anymore, because honestly at this point I feel like I've heard it all. However, one thing that does interest me is creating brand new, profound ways to understand the dating process, and today I'd like to share one such realization with you.
That realization is that no matter who you have met or what you would tell others your relationship is like with a girl, your relationship will fall into one of four categories. Furthermore, I would bet money that unless you understand today's post and how your actions relate to it, that ALL your relationships throughout your life will likely fall into the same exact category, every time.
Why, you ask?
Because the condition of your relationship is determined by levels of eagerness in your words and in your actions. In fact for most guys, eagerness in words and actions amount to a behavioral condition around women that lasts for life. It's difficult if not impossible to change unless you're aware of it, so let's open your eyes for a bit here...
First off, let's talk about the 4 relationship conditions. They are:
1. Underqualified for the girl
2. Overqualified for the girl
3. Stringing the girl along
4. Boyfriend Potential/Further relationship potential
So how does this affect your life?
Well, let's say that you're a guy who is continually not getting results from new interactions. If this is the case then it's likely that you're a guy who is consistently becoming under qualified for the girl in some way. It's also likely that this is happening quickly upon meeting the girl because that's when she's saying no.
Another example. Let's say that you're losing women, but they're dumping you 6 months into the relationship. Well, it's likely that you might have started out with some boyfriend potential, then you had further relationship potential, and then finally you became under qualified for the girl and then she dumped you... womp.
It's important to understand that these conditions are caused by your level of eagerness in your words and actions, and that's because eagerness is quite closely related to attraction. You could be (in no specific order):
-eager with your words and actions
-eager with your words but not your actions
-not eager with your words or actions
-not eager with your words and not eager with your actions
*Each one of these conditions creates a specific relationship condition from above.*
Now it's important to remember that eagerness itself isn't necessarily bad! It's how each individual woman interprets your eagerness that you should be aware of, and this is often where compatibility lies for those who have no awareness of their own actions and how they might affect a woman's emotional state and level of attraction. In other words, if you're clueless then you might be a guy who ends up under qualified his whole life until one specific woman interprets your actions in a different way than the others have. Then and only then would this type of guy say "She's the ONE!!!!" and fall in love. Well, that is until she eventually interpreted his eagerness differently and then dumped him again cause he's under qualified.
So there you have it. Your levels of eagerness in your words and actions directly result in one of the four relationship conditions I've talked about above.
Which one are you falling into and how can you change it?
So that's it for today guys. For more on this or to watch a specific video tutorial describing every aspect of this in thorough detail, join the revolution at girlfriendfastlane.com. I'll see you in there!
Oh, and btw if you haven't seen my list of free text messages to send yet, I updated it a few days ago and you can check it out by Clicking Here. Be sure not to miss the new "Space Force" text, lol.
See you next time,
Jake
Friday, August 17, 2018
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Thursday, August 9, 2018
RSD Tyler is WRONG. Here's Why...
Since I'm going to start ruling the entire pickup community (one of these days 😒), I decided yesterday to watch a few videos on YouTube of RSD to get an idea of my competition. I watched the latest video where Tyler is in Hawaii, another one with him and Jeffy in Vegas talking about how they're "old" now, and a third video that seemed to be highlighting several different cities across america an abroad. Overall, I have to say I was impressed by a lot of things. The settings, editing, and cinematography are amazing! It makes me wish I had a budget for things like other people to work for me, lol. But here I am 10 years into my career and I don't have that because I've never worked on my career really, I've just been having sex with women for 10 years... (hand slaps forehead...)
So although the videos were great, TYLER IS WRONG about the advice he gave the community on having a "screening frame." I'm about to tell you why, but first let's discuss the concept so everyone is on the same page.
Okay, so having a "screening frame" when you're meeting women is the idea that you can meet women and give her the idea that you're screening her. In other words, you have your choice of women and you're deciding if she's good enough. In the videos, Tyler advocates adopting a "screening frame" when you talk with women, saying basically that if you can do that it'll help your game. He does not offer up exactly how to do this really. He does explain why it helps, though.
Personally, I love this concept of having a screening frame and it's definitely something I personally have. In fact, it's the mark of a guy who has abundance, because when you have abundance you're actually screening for real. To me this is evidence that Tyler has abundance in his dating life, yayyy. As many of you know, Tyler and I have literally taught workshops side-by-side in many of the same venues for 10 years or so now in Hollywood, so we'll often chat even with each others students during workshops. So I'm not here to shit on him or say he's not skilled... really I'm not. He's put in the time and effort to get good and he's the real deal guy. We get along quite well, sometimes even end up at the same parties, and we seem to commonly see each other around Hollywood.
The problem with just telling guys "go and try to have a screening frame and it'll help" is that the information is VERY poorly timed for the student and has little to no practical application associated with it that would allow the information to actually be used properly. It would be like me just telling a student "Go try to be confident, it'll help." Well, if you don't have confidence, or in this case a "screening frame" then it doesn't really help students to tell them to do that.
Let's go down this rabbit-hole together, starting with a concept called "information timing"...
"Information timing" is that idea that the only information that's going to help you grow as a student is information that you can apply at that very moment, and anything else will either go straight over your head or worse, it could hurt your game even.
For instance, let's say I tell a virgin all about how to aggressively kino (touch) a girl. This information would be quite poorly timed for him. It would likely be FAR over his head, and if he was unlucky enough to believe the advice I tell him enough to actually go and do some aggressive kino, he could have some very negative consequences. He could get slapped or even arrested for some type of sexual crime, and obviously this would be a terrible result.
The same is true for this piece of advice Tyler gives, it's extremely poorly timed for almost the entirety of his students, and if they go out and try to do this, it's likely going to kill their game because in practice they will most certainly apply this information incorrectly.
Allow me to talk about my experience here first, then we're going to talk about practical application of this concept.
When I was coming up in the game I heard about the concept of screening a girl VERY early on. It came in the form of a Mystery routine (that's the dude mystery, not "something that is difficult or impossible to understand or explain"). In the routine you tell the girl something to the effect of "Tell me three things about yourself that I would like." --Ugh, just writing that makes me wanna puke, because I remember actually saying this to a girl and getting my ass handed to me. I got a "WTF" look from a hot girl and she was like "Bitch, tell me three things I'd like about you, cause I don't see any right now from where I'm at."--- "oh shit..."
So did adopting the "screening frame" help me?
Fuck... No.
It didn't help because it was poorly timed information for me and because I didn't have a practical way to apply the information.
Now let's talk about what actually happened to me when I was learning game.
First, I went out and tried and tried and tried non-stop like 5 days a week (or more sometimes) until I learned all my basic skills and was getting numbers and a few dates. Then I came to Hollywood (a huge culture shock for me being from Iowa) and spent 3 full months gaming before I got laid. From there, Brad told me "I don't even wanna see you until you've got a rotation." I think within a few weeks I had one, and then the very next week I went from dating 3 girls to dating 7. This is what it looks like when you're starting to get abundance.
Now I had a time problem.
To me, 7 girls is manageable, but back then and for most guys it's not. You start forgetting who is who and I had to start making myself notes on my phone of who each girl was so I could remember where I met her. Try it. Go try turning 100 sets a week into 30 phone numbers and then 7 girls you're dating and tell me if you need notes... I did.
What starts happening is that the confusion, lack of time, moral concerns, and everything else kick in and you're literally forced to start telling some women no. You start not returning texts, telling girls you're taken, telling new ones you don't wanna date that you have a girlfriend, etc. just to get them to go away because you know that you don't have time for them and they're just not good enough for you anyways. The only new girls you do have time for are girls who you deem "better" than the one or ones that you're currently seeing.
THIS IS SCREENING.
Screening came as a direct NEED from having abundance. Once you have a rotation of women and you're having sex all the time, you simply won't have enough time for all of the women who want you, and you'll start finding ways to say no.
First off, you'll stop caring. Once you've got your first rotation of three women, you'll be having sex with 1-3 girls every day and literally there is a physical and mental change in your entire being. This is not something you can mimic as a beginner, and if you haven't experienced this yet I highly recommend it.
That lack of caring causes you not to feel a lot of the needs that you previously had that were causing you to act "weird" and have lack of success as a result. You stop being as attentive to women, you stop agreeing with everything they say, you stop trying so hard, and you start to become more audacious about standing up for yourself and generally about handling things you're now starting to see as women's "bullshit" as I like to call it.
At this point, your results multiply at an exponential rate. Things get easier and easier, and you'll experience HUGE paradigm shifts in your thinking from time to time. Abundance and screening are first, and after that you can expect about 1-2 huge realizations each year I'd say, and I'm talking about Earth-rattling realizations that are so profound you believe there won't be another one... until there is another one. Then another, and another. I believe there have been about 10, maybe 11 times this has happened to me, and each time I think there's no way this could happen again. "I'm just too far along in this process to not be done yet" I think.
Now I say all this all at the risk of sounding super-duper braggy because I want to illustrate fully the path you're on when you start to screen. Again, it's a result of abundance, NOT a cause.
So can you "fake it till you make it?" as Tyler seems to suggest?
Well, you'll NEVER be able to truly fake all the things that come along with true abundance... you just won't. Women can smell this shit a mile away, especially the hot ones...
***Side note: A 42 year-old ex-10 (super duper hot girl who now is single and 42 for whatever reason) has a SERIOUS problem on her hands because she's used to screening for and getting guys who have abundance using her social dominance techniques, yet now her looks don't warrant attention from those same men. Uh oh.
Now she's in a situation where she has trouble being attracted to any guy she can reasonably attain, because she won't be attracted to any guy who can't get through her screening. In other words, she is only attracted to guys who are socially dominant enough to get through her screening, and her screening is now at it's best because at her highest level of experience, yet she can't attract those guys now because she's too old and guys who have that ability would just choose a hotter younger girl.
This is why women marry for money... because they can't get a dominant male anymore, so the next best thing is having a lavish lifestyle with a beta male whom they can control. They reason that he's dominant to appease themselves in their mind because he's in a position of wealth, but this is mostly delusional.***
So back to faking your way through screening... lol.
So there are some things you can do, and these are things that practically can be taught using live coaching. These are things like breaking rapport, showing outcome independence, sticking up for yourself, challenging her back when you're challenged, not accepting her frame, etc. These are the skills you need to win a dominance struggle, and they can be taught as they come up situation-by-situation in live-game.
Oh wait, sorry, nobody knows what dominance struggles are yet... (second forehead slap). Dammit, why didn't I work on my business more and not just have sex all day everyday for a decade...
Anyways, moving on...
The point of this whole story is that if you're a beginner you shouldn't be worrying AT ALL about trying to adopt a "screening frame." The reality is that you won't have one in the beginning, and that's fine.
Did you hear me clearly there??? It's fine!
Until you do have a screening frame for real, you can start learning individual concepts that you'll later have when you work hard enough to get the real screening frame, and those concepts will help you with something far more pressing: learning how to dominance struggle with the women you meet.
So just to be clear, here is the process of learning pickup:
1. Fix your fashion. It's your ticket to the game.
2. Do whatever you need to do to be able to start conversations with women. Conversations are your learning platform for skills like attraction, etc. Don't not open girls because you're working on your inner game.
3. Incite dominance struggles in your conversations in order to learn how women screen so you can beat what they're doing. Do this not and you'll spend a lot of time not getting screened at all and wondering what the hell to do in game. (I spent YEARS that I could have saved if I had known this).
4. Beat women in the dominance struggles you create and watch in amazement as you start to get attraction all the time and have sex all the time and create abundance in your life.
5. Adopt a screening frame because you NEED to, not because you TRIED to.
6. Write posts like this telling the top pickup "GURU's" that they don't know shit because they were working on their business for 10 years instead of learning their craft.
7. Be jealous of Tyler's empire and the amount of people he can reach.
The End.
Okay, not the end just yet. So I guess summing this all up, I just am annoyed that seemingly the "best" information out there from quite frankly the most well-known active coach is information like "adopt a screening frame so that she feels like you're screening her!"
To me this shit is just sooooo old-school and tired. It's the same regurgitated shit from 10 years ago, and unless you assist in teaching practical application, then really all you're doing is hurting your students by telling them some ill-timed attributes that dudes who are better than them have and beginners don't. This is the same as just saying statements like "Just have confidence, dude" and it doesn't help anyone. It just confuses people and demonstrates that we as a community of coaches can't do a great job for our students by leading them to learn the right information at the right time.
Instead of giving this advice out to people who can't use it yet, we should be talking about skills that beginners and intermediate guys can use. Let's talk about skills that demonstrate social dominance and skills that will in-turn help guys win dominance struggles in-person with the girls they meet. We should be talking about skills that get you the abundance of sex you need to actually adopt a real screening frame out of need, not a fake screening-frame that you want because we told you it's there when you're already good.
Okay, so that's all I have to say about that. Thanks for reading...
So although the videos were great, TYLER IS WRONG about the advice he gave the community on having a "screening frame." I'm about to tell you why, but first let's discuss the concept so everyone is on the same page.
Okay, so having a "screening frame" when you're meeting women is the idea that you can meet women and give her the idea that you're screening her. In other words, you have your choice of women and you're deciding if she's good enough. In the videos, Tyler advocates adopting a "screening frame" when you talk with women, saying basically that if you can do that it'll help your game. He does not offer up exactly how to do this really. He does explain why it helps, though.
Personally, I love this concept of having a screening frame and it's definitely something I personally have. In fact, it's the mark of a guy who has abundance, because when you have abundance you're actually screening for real. To me this is evidence that Tyler has abundance in his dating life, yayyy. As many of you know, Tyler and I have literally taught workshops side-by-side in many of the same venues for 10 years or so now in Hollywood, so we'll often chat even with each others students during workshops. So I'm not here to shit on him or say he's not skilled... really I'm not. He's put in the time and effort to get good and he's the real deal guy. We get along quite well, sometimes even end up at the same parties, and we seem to commonly see each other around Hollywood.
The problem with just telling guys "go and try to have a screening frame and it'll help" is that the information is VERY poorly timed for the student and has little to no practical application associated with it that would allow the information to actually be used properly. It would be like me just telling a student "Go try to be confident, it'll help." Well, if you don't have confidence, or in this case a "screening frame" then it doesn't really help students to tell them to do that.
Let's go down this rabbit-hole together, starting with a concept called "information timing"...
"Information timing" is that idea that the only information that's going to help you grow as a student is information that you can apply at that very moment, and anything else will either go straight over your head or worse, it could hurt your game even.
For instance, let's say I tell a virgin all about how to aggressively kino (touch) a girl. This information would be quite poorly timed for him. It would likely be FAR over his head, and if he was unlucky enough to believe the advice I tell him enough to actually go and do some aggressive kino, he could have some very negative consequences. He could get slapped or even arrested for some type of sexual crime, and obviously this would be a terrible result.
The same is true for this piece of advice Tyler gives, it's extremely poorly timed for almost the entirety of his students, and if they go out and try to do this, it's likely going to kill their game because in practice they will most certainly apply this information incorrectly.
Allow me to talk about my experience here first, then we're going to talk about practical application of this concept.
When I was coming up in the game I heard about the concept of screening a girl VERY early on. It came in the form of a Mystery routine (that's the dude mystery, not "something that is difficult or impossible to understand or explain"). In the routine you tell the girl something to the effect of "Tell me three things about yourself that I would like." --Ugh, just writing that makes me wanna puke, because I remember actually saying this to a girl and getting my ass handed to me. I got a "WTF" look from a hot girl and she was like "Bitch, tell me three things I'd like about you, cause I don't see any right now from where I'm at."--- "oh shit..."
So did adopting the "screening frame" help me?
Fuck... No.
It didn't help because it was poorly timed information for me and because I didn't have a practical way to apply the information.
Now let's talk about what actually happened to me when I was learning game.
First, I went out and tried and tried and tried non-stop like 5 days a week (or more sometimes) until I learned all my basic skills and was getting numbers and a few dates. Then I came to Hollywood (a huge culture shock for me being from Iowa) and spent 3 full months gaming before I got laid. From there, Brad told me "I don't even wanna see you until you've got a rotation." I think within a few weeks I had one, and then the very next week I went from dating 3 girls to dating 7. This is what it looks like when you're starting to get abundance.
Now I had a time problem.
To me, 7 girls is manageable, but back then and for most guys it's not. You start forgetting who is who and I had to start making myself notes on my phone of who each girl was so I could remember where I met her. Try it. Go try turning 100 sets a week into 30 phone numbers and then 7 girls you're dating and tell me if you need notes... I did.
What starts happening is that the confusion, lack of time, moral concerns, and everything else kick in and you're literally forced to start telling some women no. You start not returning texts, telling girls you're taken, telling new ones you don't wanna date that you have a girlfriend, etc. just to get them to go away because you know that you don't have time for them and they're just not good enough for you anyways. The only new girls you do have time for are girls who you deem "better" than the one or ones that you're currently seeing.
THIS IS SCREENING.
Screening came as a direct NEED from having abundance. Once you have a rotation of women and you're having sex all the time, you simply won't have enough time for all of the women who want you, and you'll start finding ways to say no.
First off, you'll stop caring. Once you've got your first rotation of three women, you'll be having sex with 1-3 girls every day and literally there is a physical and mental change in your entire being. This is not something you can mimic as a beginner, and if you haven't experienced this yet I highly recommend it.
That lack of caring causes you not to feel a lot of the needs that you previously had that were causing you to act "weird" and have lack of success as a result. You stop being as attentive to women, you stop agreeing with everything they say, you stop trying so hard, and you start to become more audacious about standing up for yourself and generally about handling things you're now starting to see as women's "bullshit" as I like to call it.
At this point, your results multiply at an exponential rate. Things get easier and easier, and you'll experience HUGE paradigm shifts in your thinking from time to time. Abundance and screening are first, and after that you can expect about 1-2 huge realizations each year I'd say, and I'm talking about Earth-rattling realizations that are so profound you believe there won't be another one... until there is another one. Then another, and another. I believe there have been about 10, maybe 11 times this has happened to me, and each time I think there's no way this could happen again. "I'm just too far along in this process to not be done yet" I think.
Now I say all this all at the risk of sounding super-duper braggy because I want to illustrate fully the path you're on when you start to screen. Again, it's a result of abundance, NOT a cause.
So can you "fake it till you make it?" as Tyler seems to suggest?
Well, you'll NEVER be able to truly fake all the things that come along with true abundance... you just won't. Women can smell this shit a mile away, especially the hot ones...
***Side note: A 42 year-old ex-10 (super duper hot girl who now is single and 42 for whatever reason) has a SERIOUS problem on her hands because she's used to screening for and getting guys who have abundance using her social dominance techniques, yet now her looks don't warrant attention from those same men. Uh oh.
Now she's in a situation where she has trouble being attracted to any guy she can reasonably attain, because she won't be attracted to any guy who can't get through her screening. In other words, she is only attracted to guys who are socially dominant enough to get through her screening, and her screening is now at it's best because at her highest level of experience, yet she can't attract those guys now because she's too old and guys who have that ability would just choose a hotter younger girl.
This is why women marry for money... because they can't get a dominant male anymore, so the next best thing is having a lavish lifestyle with a beta male whom they can control. They reason that he's dominant to appease themselves in their mind because he's in a position of wealth, but this is mostly delusional.***
So back to faking your way through screening... lol.
So there are some things you can do, and these are things that practically can be taught using live coaching. These are things like breaking rapport, showing outcome independence, sticking up for yourself, challenging her back when you're challenged, not accepting her frame, etc. These are the skills you need to win a dominance struggle, and they can be taught as they come up situation-by-situation in live-game.
Oh wait, sorry, nobody knows what dominance struggles are yet... (second forehead slap). Dammit, why didn't I work on my business more and not just have sex all day everyday for a decade...
Anyways, moving on...
The point of this whole story is that if you're a beginner you shouldn't be worrying AT ALL about trying to adopt a "screening frame." The reality is that you won't have one in the beginning, and that's fine.
Did you hear me clearly there??? It's fine!
Until you do have a screening frame for real, you can start learning individual concepts that you'll later have when you work hard enough to get the real screening frame, and those concepts will help you with something far more pressing: learning how to dominance struggle with the women you meet.
So just to be clear, here is the process of learning pickup:
1. Fix your fashion. It's your ticket to the game.
2. Do whatever you need to do to be able to start conversations with women. Conversations are your learning platform for skills like attraction, etc. Don't not open girls because you're working on your inner game.
3. Incite dominance struggles in your conversations in order to learn how women screen so you can beat what they're doing. Do this not and you'll spend a lot of time not getting screened at all and wondering what the hell to do in game. (I spent YEARS that I could have saved if I had known this).
4. Beat women in the dominance struggles you create and watch in amazement as you start to get attraction all the time and have sex all the time and create abundance in your life.
5. Adopt a screening frame because you NEED to, not because you TRIED to.
6. Write posts like this telling the top pickup "GURU's" that they don't know shit because they were working on their business for 10 years instead of learning their craft.
7. Be jealous of Tyler's empire and the amount of people he can reach.
The End.
Okay, not the end just yet. So I guess summing this all up, I just am annoyed that seemingly the "best" information out there from quite frankly the most well-known active coach is information like "adopt a screening frame so that she feels like you're screening her!"
To me this shit is just sooooo old-school and tired. It's the same regurgitated shit from 10 years ago, and unless you assist in teaching practical application, then really all you're doing is hurting your students by telling them some ill-timed attributes that dudes who are better than them have and beginners don't. This is the same as just saying statements like "Just have confidence, dude" and it doesn't help anyone. It just confuses people and demonstrates that we as a community of coaches can't do a great job for our students by leading them to learn the right information at the right time.
Instead of giving this advice out to people who can't use it yet, we should be talking about skills that beginners and intermediate guys can use. Let's talk about skills that demonstrate social dominance and skills that will in-turn help guys win dominance struggles in-person with the girls they meet. We should be talking about skills that get you the abundance of sex you need to actually adopt a real screening frame out of need, not a fake screening-frame that you want because we told you it's there when you're already good.
Okay, so that's all I have to say about that. Thanks for reading...
Wednesday, August 8, 2018
The 90 Degree Rule
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I'll see you in the future. Oh! and PS, don't forget to subscribe to my channel cause I'll be releasing new videos in very short order here and I won't always post them here.
Thanks for reading.
Tuesday, August 7, 2018
The Entire Dating Industry is FUCKED! (Spoiler Alert!)
Yep, you read it right, the entire dating industry is FUCKED!
Why, you ask?
Because I'm learning faster than ever how to reach people and over a year after launching GirlfriendFastlane.com, I'm making a very BOLD MOVE.
Right now I'm doing what I call my "initial public offering" of GirlfriendFastlane.com. I want YOU to be a part of the beginning of creating a group that turns the whole dating industry on it's head.
(Spoiler Alert!)
This means you can checkout the site for as little as $7. Be one of the first 100 members to join and your membership is just $29/mo. You'll be grandfathered in FOREVER at that rate as well, so now's the time. After the first 100 members the price goes up.
No excuses.
If you're already a member of the website and you're reading this, don't worry I've already lowered your rate to $29 as well, AND to thank you for being a loyal member I'd like to extend you each a 30 minute FREE Zoom live conference. Just shoot me an email and we'll make it happen.
I WANT THIS MESSAGE TO BE CLEAR: When you're with me, you're family. I take care of my members and I over deliver... period. I answer your posts daily with thoughtful feedback that's direct from me.
If all this sounds good to you, signup for my FREE "330 Text Message Ideas" access. That's the first step in getting you signed up and the only way to take advantage of this amazing one-time deal!
Thanks for reading and I'll see you in there!
Why, you ask?
Because I'm learning faster than ever how to reach people and over a year after launching GirlfriendFastlane.com, I'm making a very BOLD MOVE.
Right now I'm doing what I call my "initial public offering" of GirlfriendFastlane.com. I want YOU to be a part of the beginning of creating a group that turns the whole dating industry on it's head.
(Spoiler Alert!)
This means you can checkout the site for as little as $7. Be one of the first 100 members to join and your membership is just $29/mo. You'll be grandfathered in FOREVER at that rate as well, so now's the time. After the first 100 members the price goes up.
No excuses.
If you're already a member of the website and you're reading this, don't worry I've already lowered your rate to $29 as well, AND to thank you for being a loyal member I'd like to extend you each a 30 minute FREE Zoom live conference. Just shoot me an email and we'll make it happen.
I WANT THIS MESSAGE TO BE CLEAR: When you're with me, you're family. I take care of my members and I over deliver... period. I answer your posts daily with thoughtful feedback that's direct from me.
If all this sounds good to you, signup for my FREE "330 Text Message Ideas" access. That's the first step in getting you signed up and the only way to take advantage of this amazing one-time deal!
Thanks for reading and I'll see you in there!
Friday, July 13, 2018
Rapid Socialization
Last night I literally had a dream that I was on Joe Rogan's podcast and we were talking about what I do. He asked me about dominance struggles and about the first rule of attraction, and then I said "Well, yeah. Basically what I do is rapid socialization of my clients until they have the ability to function on their own without me. It takes as little as 3 months."
Then I woke up... instantly. "Wow, what a cool phrase!" I thought.
So for those of you who have read me for awhile and are familiar with how i teach, this concept of rapid socialization shouldn't be new or mind-boggling or anything like that. The idea is just that the socialization process doesn't have to take years and instead it can take only a few months to complete.
Let me explain.
Say you're a natural alpha dude who learns over the course of his lifetime that he's cool, great looking, great with women, etc. Still, it takes YEARS to learn how to talk to women, what to say, how to say it, where the boundaries are, etc. In the end (if you're very lucky), you're the alpha male and you have sex with a bunch of women and then get married and have kids and live happily ever after. Yay! :|
Wow, how great for all those guys. I'm so completely excited for them (not).
For the rest of us, learning that I AM COOL and I AM GREAT LOOKING and WOMEN LOVE ME almost never happens. If it does, it happens at a much slower rate than it does for natural alpha males, simply because we don't receive as much positive social feedback as they do. After all, we lack confidence in all or many areas, and we often doubt the feedback we get even when it is positive.
This sucks, so to cure the sucking in life in the fastest way possible, you have to engage in rapid socialization.
Rapid Socialization is the process where you start getting TONS of positive feedback NOW. This positive feedback from those around you changes you into a different person than you are now. Your self confidence shoots through the roof, you stop doubting yourself, and best of all women tell you're cool and hot all the time and lots of them want to have sex with you. Awesome, right!?!
Now I'm sure you're saying "But wait, Jake, this sounds like total bullshit and it'll never happen to me."
I understand. Listen up though...
The reality is that it takes FOUR things to make rapid socialization happen, so if it hasn't happened to you or for you, it's because haven't done the four things that you MUST do to socialize yourself rapidly:
1. You MUST find an expert mentor
2. You MUST get continued hands-on coaching from your mentor
3. You MUST take massive action
4. You MUST learn from your mistakes
Fail on any of these and your process of rapid socialization will slow down or even completely stop.
However, if you do these things, here's what the process could look like...
First, you find your mentor. He takes you to get a professional makeover and professional grooming. This makes you feel fantastic. Next you take action by going out and talking to women. You start receiving compliments like you never have before and you feel amazing. This causes you to want to talk to more women to see what your potential really is. During the process you make mistakes and you don't judge yourself harshly for them, because after all you still look and feel amazing and your mentor helps you interpret your failures and explains how to learn from them when you can't on your own. You start getting laid in short order, and with your new-found knowledge, you make less and less mistakes, get laid more and more, and you continue receiving positive feedback.
At a certain point, you look back on your past and you realize that you've been having success for awhile now. You remember the "old you" and how much that sucked, and now it's hard for you to understand why more people don't do what you did. After all, it's just seems so easy now...
Well, right now is Friday the 13th. It's July of 2018. Three months from now it'll be October of 2018 and people will be gearing up for Halloween. What will you be doing? Will you be finished with your 3rd month of rapid socialization ready to take home a "slutty nurse" or will you still be where you're at today?
Regardless of your where you're at right now and regardless of your income, I've created some resources for you to rapidly socialize yourself.
The first and NEWEST RESOURCE is a video "face-to-face" meeting with me online using Zoom. If you want to get me on video, you simply signup using the link at the top of this blog page and we chat! When we're finished I send you a download line and you get to keep the recording of our session!
The second resource I've painstakingly created for you is GirlfriendFastlane.com. I'll save you a huge explanation about this, it's quite simply the single best dating skills instructional website anywhere. We launched over a year ago now, so in addition to the HUGE amount of content on the website we've got over 50 HOURS of live video chats that I do weekly where I answer members questions. Oh, and you get ME, not some idiot who learned from a friend of a friend of a guy who hung out with me once. Please forgive my homepage right now though as I finish off the coming marketing you're about to see coming down the line.
The third and final resource is FIRST HAND RAPID SOCIALIZATION using me as your mentor. This starts January 1st, 2019 (or sooner I suppose if you're really chomping at the bit for it). In short you move to Los Angeles and we make this happen. In a year you're a different person. To learn more about this checkout THIS POST and if you're into it shoot me an email to jakepulls@gmail.com and we'll jump on the phone for a free call to answer any questions you might have.
That's it for today guys! I hope you'll take me up on these fantastic opportunities before it's too late and I become old and lazy, lol.
Thanks for reading!
Tuesday, June 12, 2018
The Lesson In Front of You
It's easy to dream when you start learning about women. We dream about getting that one hot girl we like. We dream about maybe getting a girlfriend or even a wife. Some of us don't even dream about marriage cause we're too busy dreaming about threesomes and dating multiple women.
Regardless of what you're dreaming about, when we dream we're thinking about the future. In fact, we're focusing on it.
So is focusing on the future okay?
Well, if you're the type of guy who seems to dream a lot and you seem to not be getting very far (or as far as you'd like) with your dreams, then today I'd like introduce the idea to you that your focus may be off a little bit...
Regardless of what you're dreaming about, when we dream we're thinking about the future. In fact, we're focusing on it.
So is focusing on the future okay?
Well, if you're the type of guy who seems to dream a lot and you seem to not be getting very far (or as far as you'd like) with your dreams, then today I'd like introduce the idea to you that your focus may be off a little bit...
Thursday, May 17, 2018
Monday, May 14, 2018
See, Here's the Problem...
We all know that women "want" (or think that they want) long-term relationships, marriage, etc. We see this idea repeated in mainstream media over and over, and women will even tell you to your face that they want long term relationships. So then why is there a HUGE divorce rate in the US? What's the huge problem causing this???
The problem is that women's natural actions don't support long-term relationships.
That's right, I said it. The actions of women are what cause divorce, not men. In fact, I'm quite sure that most men are perfectly chill and happy in a long term relationship, and the majority of us certainly aren't taking actions to kill our relationships. The majority of us just aren't wired that way.
But back to women. Why are they killing relationships they get themselves into?
Because it's in their nature.
You see, women are constantly unknowingly taking actions (however small) to gain dominance in their relationships, and it's because there is a strong biological mechanism at play. You see, if a woman can mate with a dominant man and then somehow turn him into a beta-male, then she gets to go out and mate with another dominant male, and if she has another baby then her genes now have a better chance of success than they might have if she only mated with one man. Pretty simple, right? Well, this kind of thing happens in a lot in nature.
So here's how this plays out in real life:
Man and woman meet. They have sex and get into a relationship. Dominance amongst them is established or not established at whatever level happens naturally between them. From that point on, the woman continues her screening process of trying to gain dominance over the man. As she attains dominance bit-by-bit over time, she loses attraction towards the man at that same rate.
Why? Because...
Women are attracted to dominant men.
If you're a dominant man, women will be attracted to you. Once you "have" a woman, as your level of dominance wanes, so does her level of attraction to you.
This is where it gets bad for a man.
When a woman gains dominance and loses attraction to the man she's with, the amount of fights, drama, bullshit, and unhappiness skyrocket until the relationship is over. As the woman is losing attraction to the man, she'll blame it on HIM. From that point her mission becomes getting out of the relationship in a way that benefits her the most. After all, it's his fault. Remember?
So who is to blame?
Well, nobody is to blame really. Women aren't knowingly engaging in this process, they're simply continuing their screening process during the relationship. The man's not to blame either because he has no idea how to deal with all the woman's tests over and over. In my experience, most men simply want to avoid conflict so they can have a peaceful, happy day. So if the woman is upset or mad, they seek to quell the matter at hand, and in doing so they often give up small pieces of the dominance they once had...
It's like men are constantly trading their dominance in the relationship for peace that they never get.
Why does it work out this way? It works out this way because women are wired to screen constantly for dominance in men (like I mentioned earlier). It's how they obtain the best suitor for them. And once they've "chosen" a man, they need constant reassurance that they've chosen correctly. The way they do that is through small dominance "challenges" throughout the relationship... and yes, this continues even through the course of a marriage.
So everyone loses. The women loses a man who could have been (and probably is) a good man. The man loses his relationship (and half his shit), and any kids are completely fucked over from having a chance at a decent loving upbringing independent from our government's family court system (also quite fucked).
Ouch... like big fucking ouch.
Oh! And by the way this doesn't just go for straight couples. These roles are often played out among homosexual couples and transsexual couples as well...
So what's the solution to all of this, you ask?
The solution is education and practice. As men, we should educate ourselves on how this happens so that we can practice handling these individual bouts (or dominance struggles as I call them) as they happen in the moment. To me, this is the only solution to the problem.
What's this process called? It's called Maintenance Dominance. In other words, you should establish dominance early on in your relationship, then when small dominance struggles come up, you should use them as opportunities to maintain your dominance (and therefore her attraction to you) in the relationship.
It's that simple.
We recognize that these situations are going to happen, and we simply handle them one by one, and in doing so the woman stays attracted to us because she's reminded of our dominance.
That's all she really wants anyways...
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Ever feel like this has happened to you? A woman loses her attraction towards you and then blames you for it and leaves immediately and in dramatic fashion, taking whatever she can from you in the process???
Well you're not alone, and the bad news is that you're doomed to repeat this agony throughout your whole life unless you learn to handle these struggles effectively.
Step 1. The first step to handling this stuff is to educate yourself. When a little "struggle" happens to you, try recording it on a voice memo on your phone, or if you can't do that then do your best to remember what was said and write it down.
Step 2. Find a way "through." Once you've failed at being dominant, you now are aware of one way NOT to get things right. This is a prerequisite to getting things right, so instead of beating yourself up, brainstorm some other ways of handling her ploy for dominance, or simply login to your girlfriendfastlane.com account and I'll tell you the answer on the forum. I'll even show you visually how to handle the struggle in my weekly "office hours" live chat and you can see first-hand what you should have done.
Step 3. Once you know the proper way to handle that particular dominance struggle, you simply wait for it to happen again and you fight the battle when it happens. You DO NOT talk about fucking Fight Club, lol. In other words, you don't tell the girl the theory behind what she's doing. She won't get it and you'll just end up looking weird to her. Just let the next struggle happen and dominate when it happens. In this manner you are taking the lead in your relationship by ensuring it's longevity through your preparedness and conscientious approach.
Congratulations, you've now got a legit shot at happiness...
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Pssst.... I didn't mention this in the article above, but I also create these struggles to win them because it's faster and better than using pickup lines. So if you're over using lines then you really should just go and checkout the website already... It's $7. You want a chipotle burrito, or to get laid? Dude.
Pssst.... I didn't mention this in the article above, but I also create these struggles to win them because it's faster and better than using pickup lines. So if you're over using lines then you really should just go and checkout the website already... It's $7. You want a chipotle burrito, or to get laid? Dude.
Wednesday, April 11, 2018
Pickup Mansion 2018/2019
I've got some EXCITING NEWS for you today!!!
Years ago, guys would fly to Los Angeles to change their lives by joining the "pickup mansion." They lived in a purpose built home for picking up women and participated in weekly theory sessions and once monthly weekend bootcamps. Although the program was 12 months long, many of the guys stayed 2 or even 3 years just because they loved the atmosphere of going out with like-minded guys and having so many women around all the time.
Our success was wild...
100% of the guys got laid more than they dreamed of. Many of the guys got married, got girlfriends, got multiple girlfriends, got rotations, became more successful in business, and overall every single guy grew leaps and bounds in his level of confidence. Today our students run their own companies, travel the world, have kids, and some are teachers themselves.
That program ended as our industry started to see a decline in TV promotion and people started to wonder if pickup was a thing anymore. In fact, if you're 21 years old today, you were 11 years old when the "pickup" industry was hot, and you probably wouldn't have even heard of this type of thing in any form of mainstream media since then.
WOW.
Well, I'm happy to say that right now there is a resurgence happening (at least from my point of view) in the level of interest in learning dating skills. GirlfriendFastlane.com has been active for 6 months and people have been emailing me and texting me asking about the possibility of starting another program like the mansion program we had years ago.
The answer to the question "Will there be another pickup mansion program in Los Angeles" depends on YOU.
Right now I've got 3 guys who have been seriously asking me to start up the program, and it's enough interest that I've decided to get everything going as soon as everyone is ready. We've talked about a date of January 1st, 2019. However, I'm willing to start as soon as guys are ready. After all, summer is around the corner and there will be no shortage of pool parties and bikinis in Hollywood. It's already begun!
So here we go! As of TODAY, I'm officially opening up slots for Pickup Mansion 2018/2019! And as of today I'm officially taking deposits to reserve those spots.
The BAD NEWS: Unfortunately you can't just send me money and get accepted to this program because I'm not about to let just anyone in. The right group of guys will be motivated to change their lives, and I plan on creating a positive dynamic for everyone involved. This means I must have met and trained you personally before I'll even consider your involvement in the program. One exception to that would be if you get a personal recommendation from Brad P. because he has trained you before.
The other bad news is that right now I've got solid interest from 3 guys, and I only plan on taking 4 guys unless we get 8 guys total (so that we can have two residences). There are no guarantees on anything obviously, however if you are interested you should at least shoot me an email (jake@girlfriendfastlane.com) to ask me any questions about the program that you have.
The GOOD NEWS: The good news is that there's still time to get into this program, and as of today there are slots open. The other good news is that if you're interested in being a coach for me, this training program is the way to do it. Think of it like college for pickup coaches in training. Obviously I'm not requiring that anyone work for me, but if you're the type of guy who might want a future in the dating industry, this is the way.
The PROGRAM is simple. You live with fellow students (not me) and we go out in the field to bars and clubs two nights per week. One night per week we meet for theory and for arranging dates and doing phone game with the girls you've met. In other words, this is NOT a one weekend per month training program, it's a 3 NIGHTS PER WEEK training program. Oh, and full access to girlfriendfastlane.com and more importantly, ME. That means text me when you need a text to send her, call me when you need a wing, and invite me on your double date. We'll make your success happen.
Imagine fixing your dating life ONCE AND FOREVER. Imagine never worrying that you'll be alone ever again. Imagine a year of your young life spent in Hollywood living a DREAM that others can't or won't. Imagine looking back when you're 60 and remembering that one time in your life that you WENT FOR IT.
THIS IS THAT OPPORTUNITY.
A place specifically designed for picking up women.
Training every week with a top pro.
Guys on the same path as you.
Mornings with sweaty, snoring hotties next to you.
And much much much much more!
Email me and we'll jump on the phone to discuss details, availability, and start date.
jakepulls@gmail.com
I can't wait for you to join us!
Years ago, guys would fly to Los Angeles to change their lives by joining the "pickup mansion." They lived in a purpose built home for picking up women and participated in weekly theory sessions and once monthly weekend bootcamps. Although the program was 12 months long, many of the guys stayed 2 or even 3 years just because they loved the atmosphere of going out with like-minded guys and having so many women around all the time.
Our success was wild...
100% of the guys got laid more than they dreamed of. Many of the guys got married, got girlfriends, got multiple girlfriends, got rotations, became more successful in business, and overall every single guy grew leaps and bounds in his level of confidence. Today our students run their own companies, travel the world, have kids, and some are teachers themselves.
That program ended as our industry started to see a decline in TV promotion and people started to wonder if pickup was a thing anymore. In fact, if you're 21 years old today, you were 11 years old when the "pickup" industry was hot, and you probably wouldn't have even heard of this type of thing in any form of mainstream media since then.
WOW.
Well, I'm happy to say that right now there is a resurgence happening (at least from my point of view) in the level of interest in learning dating skills. GirlfriendFastlane.com has been active for 6 months and people have been emailing me and texting me asking about the possibility of starting another program like the mansion program we had years ago.
The answer to the question "Will there be another pickup mansion program in Los Angeles" depends on YOU.
Right now I've got 3 guys who have been seriously asking me to start up the program, and it's enough interest that I've decided to get everything going as soon as everyone is ready. We've talked about a date of January 1st, 2019. However, I'm willing to start as soon as guys are ready. After all, summer is around the corner and there will be no shortage of pool parties and bikinis in Hollywood. It's already begun!
So here we go! As of TODAY, I'm officially opening up slots for Pickup Mansion 2018/2019! And as of today I'm officially taking deposits to reserve those spots.
The BAD NEWS: Unfortunately you can't just send me money and get accepted to this program because I'm not about to let just anyone in. The right group of guys will be motivated to change their lives, and I plan on creating a positive dynamic for everyone involved. This means I must have met and trained you personally before I'll even consider your involvement in the program. One exception to that would be if you get a personal recommendation from Brad P. because he has trained you before.
The other bad news is that right now I've got solid interest from 3 guys, and I only plan on taking 4 guys unless we get 8 guys total (so that we can have two residences). There are no guarantees on anything obviously, however if you are interested you should at least shoot me an email (jake@girlfriendfastlane.com) to ask me any questions about the program that you have.
The GOOD NEWS: The good news is that there's still time to get into this program, and as of today there are slots open. The other good news is that if you're interested in being a coach for me, this training program is the way to do it. Think of it like college for pickup coaches in training. Obviously I'm not requiring that anyone work for me, but if you're the type of guy who might want a future in the dating industry, this is the way.
The PROGRAM is simple. You live with fellow students (not me) and we go out in the field to bars and clubs two nights per week. One night per week we meet for theory and for arranging dates and doing phone game with the girls you've met. In other words, this is NOT a one weekend per month training program, it's a 3 NIGHTS PER WEEK training program. Oh, and full access to girlfriendfastlane.com and more importantly, ME. That means text me when you need a text to send her, call me when you need a wing, and invite me on your double date. We'll make your success happen.
Imagine fixing your dating life ONCE AND FOREVER. Imagine never worrying that you'll be alone ever again. Imagine a year of your young life spent in Hollywood living a DREAM that others can't or won't. Imagine looking back when you're 60 and remembering that one time in your life that you WENT FOR IT.
THIS IS THAT OPPORTUNITY.
A place specifically designed for picking up women.
Training every week with a top pro.
Guys on the same path as you.
Mornings with sweaty, snoring hotties next to you.
And much much much much more!
Email me and we'll jump on the phone to discuss details, availability, and start date.
jakepulls@gmail.com
I can't wait for you to join us!
Thursday, March 22, 2018
The Single Best Opener in the Entire World (And it's NOT "Hi"...)
Today I'm going to tell you what the absolute single best style of opener is in the entire planet. It's something I use (and you probably already use sometimes), it's NATURAL af, it's canned because it's planned, and NO GIRL will ever suspect just from your opener that it's something made up to talk to her. The best part about that is you're not going to open girls and immediately have them say "I have a boyfriend" like you see in every YouTube video where guys claim the best opener is "Hello" or "Hi, my name is Josh" or some other terrible load of shit like that.
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