Sunday, March 21, 2010

"I wasn't attracted to the girl so I didn't continue gaming her"

I've been seeing guys in the beginning of their learning process have trouble gaming girls who "Aren't hot enough." The common post goes like this:

"I open this girl with X opener, then I realize i'm not attracted to her so I eject and/or stop gaming."

Remember that you're in the game to improve your SKILLSET with women. Quality will come at random times in the beginning and more consistently later as you grow in your ability. The fastest way to improve your skillset now is to talk to as many girls as possible and game those girls as far as you can or as far as you feel comfortable. Opening a large quantity of women is essential to gaining dating skills in a timely manner.

Does that mean you talk to fat chicks or have sex girls you don't want to?

Getting Yourself in the Game

Early in 2007 I started out approaching for the first time at a Brad P bootcamp. I was 27 years old and I estimated that i'd done 7 total cold approaches in my life, all ending in disaster. However, since watching The Pickup Artist on VH1, I had began reading The Mystery Method book and The Game. I found myself hunting around the internet for more and more information and reading everything I could get my hands on. I was not "in the game" yet.

At some point in time, I decided to go out with a buddy who had read some of the stuff with me and talk to girls. My friend approached a couple girls with opinion openers that flopped, so we "locked ourselves in" at the bar and basically waited for conversations. When we were lucky enough to get into actual conversations we would throw negs and basically piss off any girl in the area of us. It was bad.  I thought because this stuff wasn't working that I should read more and that too didn't work. Finally I went to a workshop and that Saturday night I started talking with tons of women. Sunday after the workshop I went out to the nightclubs alone and talked to more women.  I kissed a pretty hot girl that night and it felt great to start to have women like me. I still didn't feel like I was "in the game."

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