Monday, December 28, 2015

Quick tips for New Years Eve

Happy Holidays, men!  Before I talk strategy for New Years Eve I wanted to remind you that there are only a few days left in the year, and that means you've got only a couple more days to save money on training and phone consultation with me before my RATES DOUBLE on JANUARY 1st!  And remember you can use your training anytime in 2016.  If you're still on the fence about training with me, here's a review I just got from a student I trained in Chicago just before Christmas:

Monday, December 21, 2015

Chicago! And "God Mode" Explained

So I just got back from a trip to Chicago this past weekend and I had the pleasure of being hosted by the Chicago lair on kind of a last minute basis.  Thanks again to my contact there for making that happen (not sure if you'd want your name mentioned but you know who you are).  The night there started by me meeting up with about 5 or 6 guys and talking a bit about who I am and what issues they might be facing, so today for the guys who might've missed it I wanted to write up a bit about what we talked about outside before many of the other guys showed up.  I also ended up having possibly slightly more than a few beers with one of the guys late night who wrote a review about our time that i'll include to start things out.  Basically what happened is at this point it's very difficult for me to be in a social situation and not talk to people, so he got a tiny show on Friday and we had some fun and some laughs hanging out late night.  Thanks again to all the Chicago Lair guys for your hospitality and welcomeness.  You've got a great group and I look forward to coming back soon and seeing you!

So lets get to the review first, and then i'll try & write up a bit about the specific scene in Chicago as I see it...

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Being Good Looking with Pockets full of Money

Everyone talks all day long about how if you're good looking and you have a lot of money that you can get women.  Of course we've all seen some ugly dude with a hot chick, but is he really sleeping with her?  Or haven't you seen a really good-looking guy who never really gets a hot girlfriend and instead dates down?  Why is all this shit happening and what's going on?  What can you do to maximize your chances of getting a hot girl?  If you're interested in all of this, read on...

Monday, November 30, 2015

Today's Student Review

I got an email from a student a few months ago as a review, and I somehow managed to forget to post it, so here it is for you guys.  When I teach students, I always tell them that if they would like to review me that they should be totally honest, putting both the good and the bad into my reviews.  Here's the student's email to me, unedited:

Friday, November 20, 2015

She'll leave you out of nowhere. Here's what to do.

Women will unapologetically leave you or stop communication with you at any stage in a relationship.  It could be in the first two seconds of meeting you, and it could be two years after being with her.  Either way, it'll likely leave you wondering just what the hell happened, and the information you're looking for is incredibly difficult to find and to understand once you find it.  Today i'm gonna provide some answers, and you're not going to like them...

Monday, October 26, 2015

From "No Way!" to "The Nuzzle"

This weekend I walked up to a seriously hot trendy girl, and within about 15 minutes she went from being extremely apprehensive about me to actually standing by the side of me, lowering her head, and nuzzling into me.  We had a nice makeout.  We were in our own world.  And we're going to meet up this week, obviously.  She's completely sold on me.   This progression of taking a girl from apprehensive to nuzzling and submissive is one of the most misunderstood things about women.  How do you get her attracted?  When do you show interest?  How much interest do you show and how do you show it?  Today I wanna chat about all of this and lay down some rules so things are a bit clearer.

Friday, October 16, 2015

I'm Raising my Prices

Hey guys, today i've got some good news and some bad news for you.  Let's start with the bad news.  The bad news is that i've been super busy coaching, so i've decided to substantially raising my prices starting January 1st to coincide with the release of my book, texting forum, and complete dating system.  What this means is that all my rates will basically double (or more) as of the first of the year.  The reality is that I've been a world class dating instructor for years and years and I've been undervaluing myself for quite a while.  Sorry guys.

The good news is that I'm still going to undervalue myself until the end of the year.  What that means is that if you'd like to purchase training hours from me via live or phone coaching, or if you'd like me to text a girl for you, you can still get me at my current rates until January 1st, 2016.  Yes, you can buy now and use your sessions and training next year if you'd like.  You don't have to use your training before the end of the year.

Got a girl you need to talk about?  Have you been putting off buying a training session?  Want your old wife back?  Want a girlfriend?  Wanna just hookup with a girl or two and need some help?

Now is the time.

To schedule your next training session or for questions, simply email me: and we'll arrange things.  And again I'm serious about this price increase, so act now!!!  My schedule will fill up quickly for the rest of the year so shoot me an email now and we'll make something happen.  End your year with a bang!  Spend your holidays with a woman to keep your warm and cozy!


Thursday, September 17, 2015

Identity and Identity Development

I hear the same question all the time from men...  "How can I have an attractive identity and how can I use that identity to get women?"  Today I wanna give you a simple formula that'll keep women entering your life for years to come...

Monday, September 14, 2015

Breaking Her, and the "Secret" to Lifelong Happiness

A special thanks today to the guys who responded to my last blog post and took me up on the phone coaching!  Wow, what a weekend!  I had such a crazy weekend I can't even write about parts of it.

After talking with so many guys for so long, i've been able to isolate and combat many of the behavioral patterns I see in women.  One thing i've noticed in my years as a dating coach is that women don't know how to make themselves happy.  Yep, I said it.  Women don't have a clue how to make themselves happy.  Are you tuned in?  Because today I wanna talk about how to "break" women of their pattern of self-destruction using some dominance techniques.  And i'm going to show you the actual breaking process of a woman via text.  This is the first time anyone has shown this online (because i'm the one who came up with the theory), and this is probably the single most important lesson a guy can learn, and one that so few do...  In other words, today is special fucking treat day for you.  Pay attention, class is in session.

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

I'll get her for you

So i've been doing this thing lately with some of my regular phone coaching students where I text a girl for them.  Sometimes the student wants to make sure that he gets a date with a girl whose number he just got.  Sometimes he wants to have help getting a girl he's already dating to chase him more.  Sometimes he wants to just keep her because he's losing her, and some guys just want to re-initiate with a girl who they lost a long time ago.

Regardless of the situation, when you have the courage to send a girl the text that I recommend you'll learn a huge amount about dating and i'll learn a huge amount about your relationship and your mentality with women.  Obviously, this information is extremely valuable to you!

If you're interested in me helping you out with texting a particular woman, all you have to do is take screenshots of the text messages you get, send them instantly to my personal phone, then i'll send you back what to respond to her with.  Of course we'll need to talk a bit about the situation with the girl and i'll need to explain some things to you as well.

For a short time here, i'm going to offer this entire service for $199!  For that price i'll text one girl with you and we'll chat for one hour on the phone.  We can use that hour however you'd like.  Maybe 10 minutes at first then 50 minutes later, for example.  As far as how many texts i'll send, i'll send as many as we need to in order to accomplish whatever goal we establish.  This could be turning the tables so she's attracted, getting you a date, etc.

Take action now!

Simply paypal me to id:  jake@bradpcom

Then shoot me an email:

Include your name and phone number please.  Then i'll shoot you a text message and we'll get started immediately!  Get the girl, and get her for cheap!  $199 is what a lot of guys would spend in just one night out or for a couple bar tabs.  Why not quit worrying that you're doing something wrong in texting and just get the situation fixed so that you can go on to the fun part?  This is the easiest way, so why not handle it today, once and for all?

I look forward to hearing from you!  Take action now!

Thursday, August 27, 2015

Getting over "The Hump"

Sorry guys, i'm not actually talking about humping a girl in this post.  Womp womp.  I know how you like your humping stories.  Instead, today I wanted to talk a little about how and why many guys fail at many things in their life, including learning dating skills.  If you're interested in figuring out what it takes to truly be successful at learning dating skills (and really anything else that's tough to learn), read on...

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Live With Me - Coaching Review

Hey guys!  As many of you know i've been coaching now for over 8 years professionally.  Many of my students have now gone on to create and run their own companies teaching students to get dates.  The great thing about all of this is that you don't have to go to those other guys for coaching.  That's right, you can still come straight to the source.  Me.

So for the past number of months i've been offering students a chance to come and move into my huge house in the Hollywood Hills, and today I wanted to share a review from one of the students with you. This student came to me as a very new beginner in dating and within just a few months he had a three girl rotation!  Think about that for a second.  Are you seeing anyone right now?  Wishing you were?Wishing that anytime you wanted sex you could just call one of your many women to come over?  Are you still wondering what the fuck to wear?  Are you still wanting to look and feel cool?  What if you could finally feel that way, and you could do it quickly!  What if you could fix yourself and move on to more important things in life, while still enjoying the benefits of a healthy sex life whenever you'd like?

Well one of my students has been doing just that.  He went from zero women to having a 3 girl rotation in a very short period of time.  You can do the same.


Tuesday, August 4, 2015

The Female DHV

When a woman's trying to impress you and establish her value, there's a common way that she does it, and the way she does it has been confusing men for millennia, so today I wanted to talk about it.  But first!  A story...

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

How to Date a Bartender

Hey guys!   Wow the response from my last post was amazing and unexpected.  I returned every email but one, because I accidentally deleted it and can't seem to get it back!  So if I haven't responded to you yet, send me another one because i fucked up.  lol.

So, on to bartenders...

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Getting Caught and What Happens

Hey guys!  I know its been awhile since my last post so I wanted to give you an update as to what's going on and give you a bit of theory today as well.  My ebook is in final revision and i'm now just working on getting the website up and going, and since i'm still a virgin at it (unlike other areas of my life), it's taking me longer than I originally had estimated.

That's not the case with training, however!  I have been training like crazy lately all over Los Angeles, and by my measure I only have room to take on two more students who would like regular training or would like to move in with myself and a couple other students and get comprehensive training.  If you're at all interested in that, shoot me an email to and we can jump on the phone and get your questions answered.  Do this quick!  because once i'm filled up with these last two students, I will be taking on no more students until these students are finished up with training.  That's right, none, zero, zilch!  These days (although i am doing occasional single session trainings), I really like to train students until they've got active rotations.  For some guys this only takes a month to setup, and for others it takes six months to a year.  Regardless of your situation, I don't fail.  Period.  So if you've been thinking of training and you're talking yourself out of it for whatever reason, it doesn't hurt to shoot me an email and discuss what your options might be.  

And now for the theory portion of the day...

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Early Bird e-Book List

Hey guys, if you'd like to be the first to know when my texting e-book is out, shoot me your email address above.  For now it's just a simple interest list, so it doesn't mean you're buying anything or going to be expected to buy anything, it just means you'll get an email the day or shortly before the day you can actually buy this texting eBook i've been working on for the past couple of years.  Oh!  And don't expect to be getting daily blasts right away to your inbox either, i'm not like that.  

Also, a big Congrats today to a student of mine who got a blow job from three chicks at the same time this past weekend at a college party!  I'd mention his name but i'll have to ask him first.  He's in the process of writing me a review so i'll throw that up soon.  Great work buddy!

Monday, March 2, 2015

Texting eBook Update

Hey guys,

I've been getting tons of questions and emails about my texting eBook and website and when it will be available, so I thought i'd give you a quick update.  I completed the writing of the book a looong time ago and have been actively teaching it to my one-on-one students as they have requested.  

I am currently working on the website, and i'm hoping to have it all together and online in the next month or two here.  I know you're all going to love this book and love to learn a huge amount of texting theory previously unexplained by the community!  I hope you're looking forward to the release as much as I am and the ability you'll have to send a perfect text every time.  Stay tuned...


Another Great Review

Review of Coaching Session with Jake P.

What struck me the most about Jake was how much he listened to what I had to say and how genuinely interested he was in hearing my story. He was not just clocking in, and I could feel that his heart was actually in this. He would ask sharp, insightful questions that dug into the core of whatever issue was being discussed. I found him very intuitive, like he understood what I was trying to convey and had either been there or heard it before. In short, the guy is a teacher, a good one.

Being skilled at something is one thing, but being able to teach it? That can be a whole other story. He coached me on the way I carried myself, and gave me some pointers that really resonated with me. Simple things for sure, like “hold your head up higher”, or “keep one hand free so you can talk with it”, and “hold your drink this way” but they made a difference. The sprinkler thing is pretty cool. I ain’t giving that one away; you’ll have to ask the guy. 

They are things that I have now implemented into my life. He helped me look at some beliefs I had in a new way, showing them to be irrational. Probably the most useful thing he helped me with was identifying four fundamental areas that I needed to work on. Instead of being flooded with details, he was able to distill my behavior that night and give me some solid, actionable advice. All in all, I learned quite a bit, even from just watching him interact with other people. I noticed how cheerful he was and how he treated everybody there with respect and the same attention that he was showing me as a student.

Monday, February 23, 2015

A Woman's Slick Trick to get Monogamy

Women are slick when it comes to relationships... far slicker and smarter than the average man.  I'd say women are not only smarter about relationships on the whole, they're also better informed than their male counterparts.  They've figured out a trick to get men to commit, and men everywhere are falling for it, so i'd like to tell you about it today...

Friday, February 13, 2015

How to Have a Great Valentines Day

Valentines Day is tomorrow gentlemen.  So strap in, because whether you've got love or not, you're in for a mental and emotional ride.  In preparation, I wanna go through some things to do and not do for your specific situation with women.  With any luck, you can make it a great day!

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Why People Fail At Changing Habits

We all have habits we'd like to break or start.  Maybe you'd like to smoke or drink less, start working out more, or (for most guys reading my blog) you'd like to be in the habit of approaching more and doing better with women.  But why doesn't that happen, even when we seem to try so hard at it?

Friday, February 6, 2015

The Fizzle Out

Have you ever started to date a woman and you start dating, maybe you have sex once or twice, then somehow you just can't manage to setup another date or get her to text you much because she's just so seemingly busy?  Well today I wanna talk about why that happens and how you can use that same girl move to your advantage.  I like to call it "The Fizzle Out."

Thursday, February 5, 2015

The 'Ol Boner & Bye Bye

Today I wanna talk about a classic woman "move" that I like to call the 'Ol Boner & Bye Bye.  If you've ever had sex before, the odds are this has happened to you.  The 'Ol Boner & Bye Bye is where you're hanging out with a girl, you start making out and you get a boner.  Then, before you have an orgasm of some type, the girl shuts you down and you go bye bye home alone, with just you and your raging hard penis.  As we all know, this is not a pleasurable experience and often results in masturbation.  In fact, I consider myself lucky if I can maintain my boner long enough to get home to the privacy of my room.

Obviously, the reality is that women can, do, and will continue to do the Boner & Bye Bye until the end of time, so it's an essential dating skill to understand why this happens and how much you should put up with it happening before deciding to move on or take other action.

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Change your Dating Life Once and FOREVER!

I'm currently taking applications for two or possibly three new students who would like to change their dating life forever.  You will eat, sleep, and breath the hollywood single lifestyle with me right at your side.

How to Get a Woman Back

Ahhhh, the age old question.  How do I get my old girlfriend back?  How do I get my old fling back?  How do I get an old acquaintance back who I never got to sleep with?

The answer to these questions is FAR simpler than you think, and as you might guess once you've learned it, a very high percentage of women will come back into your life whether or not you were the one who did the dumping.  In fact, I currently experience about a 90% or higher rate of women coming or trying to come back into my life once we've had distance or time between us for whatever reason, and using the below techniques i've also been able to smooth out my texting game and the process of going from first date to girlfriend.

So would you like to know how to get a woman back into your life?  Then read on.  

Monday, January 26, 2015

Free Coaching Review

Just a reminder i'm offering free coaching consultations through the month of february again because i've got a couple openings for new clients.  Simply email me: to see if you're qualified.  

And a quick tip for today:  Remember, when you're meeting a girl for the first time she'll always maintain a neutral reserved energy until she decides that she'd like to get to know you more.  This means that for the first couple minutes of your conversation, don't be surprised if you're getting bitchy looks or absolutely zero indication that she likes you.  THIS IS NORMAL!  Talk your way through those first couple minutes of awkwardness and you'll be well on your way towards success.  

Wondering what to say in those couple minutes???  Shoot me an email and i'd be glad to explain it to you.  Cheers!

Saturday, January 3, 2015

How to Not be Creepy

Although we all like to think that we can meet women anywhere and in any situation, the reality is that when meeting women we should be conscious of how the situation we meet the woman in can affect the way she thinks and feels about us.  The last thing we want is to come off creepy simply because we didn't quite think through what we're doing.