Just over a year ago I wrote about a technique I use where I avoid eye contact with people in a bar to create the impression in others that i'm a high-value person and make women intrigued by the combination of my presence and visually apparent lack of neediness. Even before I developed this technique, I had already been teaching a similar technique to my students called "The Sprinkler." Now for all you guys who have managed to miss out this long, i'll talk you through it.
Monday, June 25, 2012
Since I started teaching pickup over four and a half years ago i've seen a very common pattern in men's behavior that causes inevitable relationship demise, and it sickens me everytime I hear it. In fact, the problem i'm about to describe is so common, i'd say it's in the top 5 causes of broken long-term relationships, if not number one. Just two days ago I had a friend contact me through facebook and tell me his story, and lately he hasn't been the only one. Because this is affecting people very close to me and close to you, i've decided to address it here.
The pattern is this: A guy is in a relationship with a girl for a long time, usually around 3-5 years. He finds out that the girl has been cheating on him, sometimes only "emotionally" and sometimes physically as well. The guy finds out and freaks out, and the girl often "needs some space" or needs "to figure things out" and decides to sleep somewhere else like her parents house for awhile. The guy continues texting/calling incessantly, and the girl dumps him. Sound familiar? Well even if it doesn't, then read on! Cause if it's not yet, then it might be before you know it, and even if it's not you with the problem, someone in your life will likely need the following help...