Coaching Review

I coached a student last weekend and he sent me this review.  Enjoy. 

Review of Coaching Session with Jake P.

What struck me the most about Jake was how much he listened to what I had to say and how genuinely interested he was in hearing my story. He was not just clocking in, and I could feel that his heart was actually in this. He would ask sharp, insightful questions that dug into the core of whatever issue was being discussed. I found him very intuitive, like he understood what I was trying to convey and had either been there or heard it before. In short, the guy is a teacher, a good one.

Being skilled at something is one thing, but being able to teach it? That can be a whole other story. He coached me on the way I carried myself, and gave me some pointers that really resonated with me. Simple things for sure, like “hold your head up higher”, or “keep one hand free so you can talk with it”, and “hold your drink this way” but they made a difference. The sprinkler thing is pretty cool. I ain’t giving that one away; you’ll have to ask the guy. They are things that I have now implemented into my life. He helped me look at some beliefs I had in a new way, showing them to be irrational. Probably the most useful thing he helped me with was identifying four fundamental areas that I needed to work on. Instead of being flooded with details, he was able to distill my behavior that night and give me some solid, actionable advice. All in all, I learned quite a bit, even from just watching him interact with other people. I noticed how cheerful he was and how he treated everybody there with respect and the same attention that he was showing me as a student.

-D

Thanks again D!  Great working with you.

How to handle her terrible excuses

We've all heard the terrible excuses women give us not to hangout, and we know they're complete bullshit.  "I know honey, I know.  You're deathly ill, you have a family emergency, your friend just broke up and you stayed over at her place last night, your grandma called, and your dog ate your fucking homework...  Now how the hell am I supposed to deal with all of your crap and still keep my sanity? "

How to Handle Her Tantrums

Anytime you're involved in a relationship, sooner or later the woman you date is gonna throw a temper tantrum to try and get her way.  Usually this means she'll leave wherever you're at in hopes that you're going to follow her.  She might have the taxi pull over on the side of the road and let her out, she might leave the bar you're in, or she might just leave your place or kick you out of hers.  One way or another, there will be a tantrum designed to get her what she wants, and one way or another you'll have to deal with it.  So what should you do and how should you handle a situation like this when it happens?

How to Not be Needy

Many of us go through our daily lives being needy in a variety of ways.   We're needy of attention, of response, and needy to give response.  Are there actually needs in these places, or have we created them unnecessarily?  And if we've unnecessarily created these needs, then how does our creation of unnecessary needs affect those around us?  What is the actual minimum amount of neediness possible?

If you've ever wondered what the path is to total non-neediness, i'm going to outline it right here.  First i'll teach you how to be a total dickhead (you'll think) and then i'll explain an exact three step process to understanding when you're needy so that you can stop yourself and practice not engaging in needy behavior.  I'll even explain how you can use this new found skill to make women hit on you.  Are you ready?  Read on...

Fulfillment in your Dating Life

In my 6+ years of coaching men, I've witnessed hundreds of different philosophies and strategies for being happy in life when it comes to dating and relationships.  At whatever stage of life they're in, men have different versions of what they think is the next relationship that will make them happy in life.  I've seen men who want to sleep with their first woman, men who want to sleep with their first woman without paying for it (no joke), men who want to sleep with their 300th woman, men who want to get married, men who want to get divorced, and men who have no clue what they want.  I feel like i've seen it all at this point.

So which men are the happiest?  How can you be one of them?

One-on-One Review

It's amazing what we can accomplish in just one night!  Here's the review from "Particle Man" Saturday night.  

Here's the student's review:

I Passed out While Fucking

So i'm taking a break from writing my Texting e-Book to write this post...

 Germany just won the World Cup!  WOOHOOO!  Many of you know that I travel quite a bit, and one of the trips I took was to Germany in 2006 to watch the World Cup.  The excitement, the people, and the worldwide party turned me into a fan of the event of Soccer altogether...

And that's why I drank 22 Heinekens during the game... and passed out at 3am while having sex with a girl i'm dating.  

So here's what happened...