Tuesday, May 31, 2011

A Student's Big Decision

Hey guys,  I got a question today from a student in the 30/30 club about going exclusive with a kinky girl and I wanted to share it with you because I feel it's an important issue to learn for all guys.  Here it is:

Monday, May 23, 2011

The "One Lap Rule"

Ever spent time with your friends at a bar and seen a random guy pass your group like six times, just looking around?   Someone always says something like "Dude, that guy's walked by like 100 times already, WTF?" When guys are unaware or just first learning to approach, it's very common for them to unknowingly cut laps around bars, lowering the value others perceive them to have.   Usually this is a result of some creative avoidance from fear or other inaccurate social programming and can be fixed with a simple solution I like to call "The One Lap Rule."

Friday, May 20, 2011

I Believe

I believe that everyone in life chooses their level of happiness.  I believe that happiness results from understanding the things we want in life and being patient and motivated enough to form our lifestyle around getting them.  I believe that motivation comes from both inspiration and frustration at times, and regardless of which one we've got I believe we often still need the guidance and support of others as we go through the process of learning.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Being Social Without Booze.

I used to drink every time I went out for the night.  Many of you know I bartended for a couple years, and even before that I loved to drink.  It tastes great, I love the process of drinking, and it often got me in a social mood when I otherwise wouldn't have been social at all.  After over six years of drinking to get social I believed wholeheartedly that the booze (and even sometimes the drugs I took) were definitely the cause of my ability to be social and talkative.  But was booze really what got me in a social mood?

Friday, May 13, 2011

Cancun Street Video

After some attempts at adding a video feed from YouTube to my page, I've decided just to include videos as posts so that you don't have to watch videos of cats instead of me.  This video's from a year ago in Cancun at Spring Break.  I met a Spanish speaking girl and wrote my name and a smiley face on her chest and we're hanging out on the street watching a guy puke.  Super Awesome.

BTW... keep checking my blog.

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Quit Your Day Job... Now!

America Sucks! The industry standard for your working life is 40 hours a week, 50 weeks a year. You get 2 weeks vacation if you're lucky. Many people who choose to comply with this bullshit request from employers go through a period in their lives where they have little to no:

1. Self development
2. Personal/dating life
3. Fun
4. Vacation

Sound familiar? Are you a person who's crossing off days on the calendar 3 months before you go to Vegas for a weekend? I say fuck that, change it. It's just not worth it.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

She's Not Even in the Fucking Room!

Do girls ever catch you checking them out? Do girls know that you know they're around? How would a girl know that a guy's checking them out, and how does that make them feel? How does it affect your status/chances with them?

There's much talk in the dating community about how girls perceive men when they approach them. Some guys are worried that girls will know they like them by approaching, yet others proclaim that you might as well just use direct game and tell the girl you like her cause she knows anyway. I even contributed to a thread recently on a dating forum where I talked about not telegraphing interest to a girl in set and a student replied with the following:

Thursday, May 5, 2011

What to do when a girl texts you "Who is this?"

I've been getting a number of guys asking what they should do when they text a girl and get the response "who is this?"

The reason this is often difficult to figure out is because often questions and action come before actual thought. Guys often don't take the time to discern what the context of this question is, so they can't make a rational decision about what it means and what to do. Instead of blindly typing in a response that you've read online somewhere or gotten from asking a friend, I suggest stopping and really thinking about the context before texting or making any adjustments.