One of the coolest things i've learned through studying dating is that I can consciously take steps to make myself into whatever kind of guy I would like to be. If i'd like to, I can become a crazy guy, an aggressive guy, a gentle guy, a warm guy, or really any type of guy out there. If I want to be like any guy i've seen or met in the whole entire world, I can. All I have to do is have a great example to go by, understand what "elements" make up that guy's personality, choose which elements i'd like to implement into my own personality, then practice those elements during the course of my social life. Do this, and sooner or later I'm going to become that guy I seek to be.
This idea of growing into the guy I seek to be seems to have been in the back of my mind forever, quietly shaping my life and my decisions on an almost daily basis for a long time now, and it's finally reaping great rewards in my life in the form of pleasure and happiness in both my life and the lives of others. At this point, I can even engineer the experience others get when they're around me through the energy I give out to others when I meet and converse with them. But "Hold on here!"... "Wait a second" you might say. How do I even know who I want to be? Which elements of another guy's character are the best ones for me to implement? And how do we as students make personality changes for the better when we really don't have an idea of what's the best personality to seek to have? Today I wanna take a shot at answering these tough questions by talking about the way i've seen some very famous people act...
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Lately one of my favorite things to do when talking with women is something called a role-reversal. A role reversal is the acting out of a situation where the man takes on the traditional role of the female and vice-versa. In other words, if in a situation a female normally would do X and a male would do Y, then when acting out a role reversal the man might do X and expect the female to do Y. This past weekend I sarged a bit in Houston, and using a role reversal I opened a smoking hot Latina girl and was able to get two free drinks and a makeout within about four minutes! Role reversals should be one of the many powerful tools in your social arsenal, so today I wanted to share with you a bit about what happened and how you can use role reversals to flirt during your sets.