On Age

Over and over I get asked about age and how to handle it.  Students believe wholeheartedly that somehow their situation with their age is unique and that it needs special attention.  Well i'm here to tell you that your age isn't a big deal, and regardless of what it is i've got a surefire formula for the "age conversation" that works every time.  If you'd like to know it then keep reading...

On Insecurity

I wrote a bit in April about Insecurity and I would like to touch again on insecurity and specifically how it relates to experience level.  Now when I was an average frustrated guy, boy was I ever insecure.  I'd worry all the time about losing any girl I met, even if I was just orbiting!  My motivating force?  Fear.  All I could seem to think about was losing her to another guy.  I'd visualize her getting gorilla-fucked by some other random herculean man and it tore me apart.  Obviously it was happening and obviously she had the most screaming orgasm possible.  If you've seen the movie High Fidelity with John Cusack there's a great illustration of this type of thinking.  How can we change this thinking around?