Going Sexual

How do you "Go Sexual" with a girl?  When?

I just answered a form of this question on an online forum that I thought i'd share, cause it's been coming up a lot in the past couple days.  In fact, I just did a theory session with the pickup mansion students on Monday night where I talked about just this topic and as a result one of the students got a single night lay that very night.  In the meantime here's the question:

A Chat with Tyler Durden from RSD

Normally on Monday nights I teach the pickup mansion residents theory for about an hour, but last night I decided to switch things up and head out with them for the night to do a spot check on their game and spend some time not in hardcore workshop mode with them.  We hit a popular Monday night spot in Hollywood, did some chatting and some approaches, and later in the night Tyler Durden from Real Social Dynamics (RSD) showed up and we talked some game as well.

1 Trick for Not Getting Drunk

Ever in a situation where you're drinking with others and someone buys shots for the group but you don't want to drink yours?  This can be a rough situation.  On one hand you would love to accept someone's offer and give them the satisfaction they seek from buying for everyone, but you also don't want to get drunk or say no and be the guy who ruins the positive atmosphere.  You also know that getting too buzzed will hurt your game or cause you to feel like total dogshit the next day, so you don't want to drink.  What's the best move here?  Well fear not friends, your friendly dating coach/highly experienced drinker has a simple trick for you straight from behind the bar.

She's a Slut Anyways...

Day to day I see a steady number of guys who have trouble with women and blame it on the woman consistently.  They say things like "Oh, that girl must've been on the rag" or "She's a slut anyway" or something to that effect.  Guess what dudes?  Maybe it's you that's the problem.

Online Dating Strategy

I've been doing affiliate marketing for a few months now, and have compiled TONS of data on women through advertising on Plenty of Fish.  Literally my ads have been shown millions of times already, so I decided to share with you some interesting information i've found about the profiles of women who are actually "biting."  Here we go...

Open Strong or Open Wrong

Lately i've been coming to the realization that many guys believe that when they approach a girl who is separated from them by some distance, they should appear "natural" when doing so.  For some, this means maybe taking a cell phone out and meandering around before approaching, and for others it might mean taking kind of a banana-like route over to a girl they're about to approach.  Either way most students will do an "aha" moment type of thing or act like they just happened to notice the girl, then they open.  In cases where you've got some "cover" or can do this covertly, I agree it's not a bad move.  However, if the only thing between you and the girl you're about to approach is ten feet, I strongly DISAGREE with any type of meandering around or other bullshit to try and appear natural!  I say if you're not opening strong, you're opening wrong.  Let me tell you why I believe this and how you can remedy the problem...

Letting Go and Breaking Up

Just had a suggestion in a comment on my last post asking if I would write about letting girls go, and how professionals (me specifically) deal with letting girls go whom we've had an emotional connection with in the past.  To cover all bases here, I wanna talk about not only dealing with post-breakup feelings, but also the pre-breakup and how i'll make the decision to actually breakup.  Here we go...