Thursday, June 16, 2016

How to make any girl want to fuck you

Today I'm going to outline how YOU can make ANY girl want to fuck you.  That's right, ANY girl.  Oh, and by the way if you're new to reading my blog or you've never heard of Jake P. before, you might be wondering "Who the fuck is this guy and how does he know?"

Good question.

Well my name is Jake, and I've been a professional dating instructor since 2007, first apprenticing under the number one dating instructor in the world, and now running my own company since 2014.  I've taught hundreds of men just like you in person.  I've taught them exactly how to make any girl want to fuck them, and now some of those men now have companies and students of their own.  They show men how to meet women using the techniques I've taught them.

The difference between them and me?  They're repeating information they've learned from other people, and I'm sharing information with you that I've learned through my 15+ years of going to bars and clubs and hitting on over 50,000 women.  Oh, and if that's not enough, feel free to do a simple search online for Jake P. and you'll be able to find tons of reviews done by students just like you over the years.  I boast a 100% success rate, and today after I expose some of my best secrets to you I hope that you'll become a raving fan just like they are and the other 500,000 (thats a half million) people who have read this blog just like you're doing now.

Are you ready?  Okay, then let's get right to it.

So the first thing you'll need to understand if you want to make any girl want to fuck you is you need to understand what process a woman has to go through to become attracted to a man.  As a man, we can usually just look at a woman and decide "Yep, I'd fuck her" or "Nope, no way in hell I'd have sex with that ugly/fat/disgusting/swampy/ratchet chick" simply based on what we visually see.  In other words, we don't often care as much about a woman's character as we care about the way she looks physically.  If her face, boobs, and butt are in order, then we'll probably be willing to give it a go.

Women couldn't be more different.

Because women have such a small amount of children during their lifetime, they want to find the absolute best candidate for them, one who not only is good looking, but has great character, is likely to stick around, and who also will have the ability to provide for her and a child in the long-term.  This is why women tend to seek out men who have high social status and who have money instead of simply looking for the best looking man.  Women look for and value a variety of traits in men based on their individual place in life.  In other words, a 23 year-old single mom looks for far different things in a man than a 40 year old single, successful woman.

What's great about women though is that all women go through the same process when getting attracted to a man, and if we learn what that process is, we can purposefully ensure it happens.  

Have you ever seen a John Hughes movie?  If you don't know who John Hughes is, he's an American Filmmaker who is best known for scripting and directing classic movies such as Ferris Bueler's Day Off, Sixteen Candles, and The Breakfast Club... just to name a few.  Now the reason that John Hughes is important is because I believe that he understood the process that women go through to become attracted to men, and you'll find that process scripted into many of his movies.

It usually goes something like this...

First there are a couple of stereotypical women in the movie.  Usually one is super hot and has a boyfriend already and the story focuses more on the average girl who doesn't have a boyfriend yet.  The average girl who doesn't have a boyfriend happens to like the super hot and super cool guy at school.  You know, the kind of guy who is driving a cool car and has a leather jacket and shit... that guy.  The problem is that the average girl doesn't even know if the cool guy even knows that she exists.  In fact, she usually thinks that he has no clue who she even is.  Nonetheless, the average girl has thought enough about the guy that she's obsessing about him.  She's dreaming of somehow getting a guy like that one day.

So as the movie progresses,  soon enough the average girl has a chance encounter with the cool guy.  Maybe he bumps into her in the school hallway or something.  They exchange names and then he goes on his way.  Now the girl starts to think there's maybe an outside chance that somehow, some way she could possibly end up with the guy.  From there some time passes and the girl again somehow meets up with the guy and gets more attracted to him until eventually at the end of the movie they kiss.

The End.

So just a recap:  Girl doesn't think she could get the guy.  Girl thinks about the guy and gets increasingly attracted to the guy.  Girl meets the guy and starts to think there's a chance.  Finally the girl finds out that the guy likes her and they kiss.  Movie over.

Are you still with me here?

Okay, so the point of explaining all of this to you wasn't to sell you all Netflix subscriptions, the point was to try and simply illustrate to you how a women gets attracted to a man.  I'm hoping that when you read that you started to try and picture things from a woman's perspective... at least a little bit.  You see, the process of getting a woman attracted to you takes a bit of time and a bit of mystery.  You can't just walk up, tell the girl "Hey, I think you're beautiful and I just had to come and say hi or I wouldn't respect myself, blah blah blah" and have the girl magically start ripping her top off for you.

It just doesn't work that way.  

In fact, it works the exact opposite of that way.  The woman first has to wonder if she could even get you.  In fact, a woman will not want to fuck you and will not become attracted to you if she knows she could have you.   She first has to wonder.  Let me repeat this so I'm absolutely clear:

If a woman knows she could fuck you if she wanted to, and she knows this before she has had the chance to become attracted to you, you will never fuck her, ever.  

So how do you create these feelings of attraction in her?  Well we've just talked about the timing of it all and I'm going to tell you about what to say in just a second here, but first I want to walk you through the rest of the steps to making her want to fuck you so that you understand the big picture.

After the girl is wondering whether or not she could have you, the next step to making her want to fuck you is she actually has to meet you.  This can be a chance encounter like in a John Hughes movie, or it can also be something you make happen.

Better yet, if you're really skilled you can meet the woman and make it seem like a chance encounter to her.  In other words, maybe you stand within a reasonable distance from her at a bar and something happens around you that you comment on.  Maybe you're both waiting for a drink at the bar and when she turns around to leave you're face-to-face with her.  Encounters like this can seem serendipitous to a woman when in reality you have a lot of control over making something like this "just happen."

Have you ever noticed how a woman who likes you at a bar maybe ends up standing somewhat close to you?  Women who like a certain guy will often stand closer to him in a social setting hoping that some way, somehow, they might have a chance encounter where they get to meet in this way.  In fact, women DREAM about that shit.  Not joking.  They fucking dream it!

Don't believe me?  Watch like any Disney movie ever made.  In fact, just pick a random Disney movie and ask some women if they've seen it.  I guarantee a huge percentage of them will have.  In fact, every woman I know watched Disney movies as a child, and if you think that those movies didn't shape how she thinks her life will unfold then you're delusional.  Disney movies absolutely shape a woman's fantasies about how she will meet her prince charming and fall in love.  This means you should:

Make an effort to engineer the type of experience for a woman that they believe should be the way they meet a man.  

I repeat.  This does not mean you walk up to a girl and tell her she's beautiful.  Women don't dream of that happening.  Instead when it happens to them (and it happens a lot), they simply get flattered for 3 seconds, realize you're hitting on them, and move on because they know they could have you if they wanted.  In fact, now that you've let the cat out of the bag, they know now FOR SURE.  And for those of you in the "pickup artist" or seduction world who know the lingo, this is called "Direct Game" and it doesn't work.  I've just explained why, so you can now stop buying products online that are marketed specifically to the group of men who have a fantasy that this will work for them.  It won't, and if you buy into this you are a sucker.

Got it?  Okay.  I'm not trying to be a dick here, I'm just trying to be very frank with you about the truth.  So moving on...

So far, the girl doesn't know that you like her and she meets you for the first time somehow.  Now what exactly do you say to get her to want to fuck you?

Great question.

There are a variety of things that men say and do to get women attracted to them.  Some guys like to be funny, some like to act dominant, some like to have pre-scripted things to say to women that they know will work most of the time, etc.  What I've found over the years in teaching men is that different women respond to different types of things.  Some women respond well to humor and some women respond more to a man acting more like an "asshole" to them.  However, regardless of the type of women, they all go through one simple process that they use to eliminate guys from having a chance to fuck them.

If you know the process that women use to eliminate men, then you won't get eliminated and she'll want to fuck you and not all the other guys.

Once you know this process, you literally have the keys to the universe and you can fuck all the women you want.  This works if you're a fat guy, it works if you're poor and you have no car, and it works if you're old and bald.  I've taught this to all types of men and it works for every kind of guy.

Using my trick you can make any girl want to fuck you.  

You can lose your virginity, get married, get a girlfriend, etc.  Whatever your heart desires.

What's the catch?  

Well, the catch is that literally nobody has figured this out yet.  I'm the only person in the whole world.

I'm not joking.

If you don't believe me, let me explain quickly so that you do.  There are a lot of companies and individuals who try really hard to teach men how to make women want to fuck them.  If you go and look at any of these company's training courses or "get women" courses, they all teach you how to get a woman attracted using a variety of things like maybe comedy or telling a good story or standing up tall, things like that.  However, nobody teaches the process of elimination that women use because they don't know it.  But again, if you know how women eliminate men, then you don't get eliminated anymore.

The great news about this process of elimination is that once you go through it with a woman, you don't need to attract her through humor, alpha male stuff, asshole moves, good looks, fancy cars, or rock-hard abs.  In fact, once you go through her process of elimination and you don't get eliminated, she's already attracted to you... She's wants to fuck you!  The attraction that you develop is so deep, and the process so unknown to men, that once you go through it with a women almost no man will ever be able to top your game.  The reason why is because no man will understand it (and her) like you do.  Ever.

Just to be clear:  No man will ever do better than you because literally no other man on the planet knows the simple tricks to beating her elimination process.  

Have you ever fantasized about a woman being yours and only yours for the rest of your life?  Have you ever wanted to feel totally confident that no matter what, no man will ever be able to top what you've done with her?  Well I'm here to tell you I feel that way.

So here's the bad news.  I'm not giving you that tip today for free because I do have to make a living, unfortunately, and this took me 10 years to figure out, I'm not joking.  But I am going to continue this blog post in a second and finish telling you how to make any girl want to fuck you.  However, if you can't wait to learn the #1 best secret on the planet to making any girl want to fuck you, simply 

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Okay, so if you're not a guy who wants to use my secret technique then that's okay too.  You can still meet a girl and try to talk to her the traditional way where you just try to say something funny or interesting or maybe to a role-play or something like that with her.  This is a bit tougher than using my secret, but it can work still.  The idea is to try one thing and see how the woman responds to what you did, then do more of it if it worked and less of it if it didn't seem to get a good response.

For instance, let's say you're trying to get a woman attracted to you using humor.  Maybe you say something funny and you can see that she laughs and giggles and maybe touches you.  Great!  If it worked like that then keep doing more of it because it's working.  If it's not working, then maybe try something else.  The important thing is to understand that women respond to different types of things.  you've seen some women who like "assholes" and I describe how this works in my book as well.

So hopefully by now you've been reading all of this and you've been processing it so that you can make any girl want to fuck you.  Just to go over one last time, here are the exact steps:

1.  First make it so the girl doesn't know if she could get you.  

2.  Somehow you have to interact or meet the girl and begin communication.  This could be through online messaging, meeting in person, etc.  

3.  Attract the girl easily using the secret technique I expose in my book Flawless Texting that no man will ever be able to top, or try techniques like humor, acting like an alpha male, being the best at something, etc. like everyone else does.  If it works, do more of it.  If it doesn't work, then try something else.  

After you've done these three steps the woman should be attracted to you, but that won't necessarily mean she wants to fuck you.  The last step ensures that she'll want to fuck you, and that's to be the sexual aggressor.

4.  Take sexual action

Taking sexual action means that when you know a woman is attracted to you, it's time to touch her in a sexual way so that she knows that you will fuck her.  Remember, before she likes you it's very bad to let her know you want to fuck her, but after you're 100% sure she likes you, it's the perfect time to let her know you want to fuck her.

I like to let a girl know I want to fuck her using either visual, auditory, or kinesthetic cues.  What this means is that sometimes I'll communicate that I want to fuck a girl visually (like she can see it in my eyes maybe), sometimes I'll tell her (maybe slowly and suggestively in her ear), and sometimes my aggressive touch will tell her I want to fuck her (like grabbing the back of her hair and pulling it down so that her chin raises and exposes her neck to me.  When done at the right time AFTER a woman is attracted to me, taking sexual action ensures that the woman will want to fuck me because I'm changing her mental and emotional attraction into sexual attraction.

That's how to make any girl want to fuck you.

Now I'm sure you have about a million questions about this, and again today I just wanted to outline the basics for you so that you have an overall idea of what's happening.  As you can imagine, practical application of all of these techniques is much more difficult to do than just to read about.  Again, if you want to make the process easy on yourself, pickup a copy of my book before the price goes up.  I've even got a 60-day 100% money back guarantee if you don't like it, so there's absolutely no risk.  Click Here and buy it now!  It'll change your life.

If you're a guy who feels like you might need a bit more help with this process of making women want to fuck you, then I'm here to help you.  It's my passion in life!  The dating process isn't easy for anyone and the good news is that I've spent the last 15 years learning everything in the world there is to know about it so that I can make the process as quick and simple as possible for anyone who simply chooses to accept the help I offer.

I'm here to make dating and finding women as easy as possible on you, so if you have any questions for me about yourself and your path to learning about women, simply email me at:

I personally answer all of my emails and I offer a variety of forms of affordable personal training, everything from phone calls to Skype to online dating profile help, makeovers, one-on-one live training, seminars, personal texting help, I'll text a specific girl for you, I'll help you get your ex girlfriend or wife back, all of it.  I've literally done these things for years now with 100% success in the eyes of my clients, and I will do the same for you.

Thanks for reading.



  1. I'm familiar with your philosophy of withholding interest-and I have had success with it to some extent- but I have some technical issues with it. What would you do when you have a very limited time window to talk to her? I mean when there is not time to let her observe you and wonder whether she could get you. For example, I stop by a friend's party and a woman catches my eye but everyone's leaving in 10 minutes so it is now or never. Or say when I see a girl in an elevator.

    Second question, what would you do if you slip up and she accidentally catches you looking at her before approach? Does it totally kill my chances with her? Or do I still have a fair chance?


    Dr. Ray

    1. Great question. There are several ways for a woman to wonder if she can have you. Yes, she can observe you, but you can also create this vibe through interacting with her and it can happen very quickly. I use the technique that I outline in my book because it accomplishes both her wondering and then getting attraction very quickly and in the correct order.

      If I slip up and she catches me looking at her before the approach, I approach anyways. It doesn't necessarily kill your approach altogether, but you have telegraphed some interest. I might misdirect her when this happens as well, like for instance by saying she has something on her head or face, etc. This can kind of save face.

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